Love and tenderness in the bento: saffron x cubicle vegetable Peng Xianhui (part two)

0 sharing (continue the previous article) starting from the daily diet, the food on the table is the best food education scene. This time, we invite the writer Crocus, and Peng Xianhui, the calligrapher of Ilan, to share an exchange of food farmer education and parent-child upbringing from the point of view of both mothers. This is also a chance to catch a glimpse of the delicious lunch secrets of the two mothers!

Q5: what kind of mother's taste do you want to convey through the bento? Fan: I think eating is very important. Everyone has some influence from the food background of the original family. I hope that when children eat my food, they can feel their mother's intentions and know that their mother loves them very much. Through the bento, I also hope to make them feel loved, cared for and caught.

Peng: I didn't (laugh)! I don't think much about it when I make a bento, but I think it feels good to me that the bento has been eaten up, or sometimes the child will take the initiative to say that he wants to eat a dish that I haven't cooked for a long time. At the moment, you will feel encouraged, some part of your heart has been satisfied, and you will feel as if you have been remembered by your child.

Q6: what kind of message do you expect to convey to the public on the value of friendly food farmers through your own influence? Pan: we all affect the whole world and this land through diet. I hope you will support organic and friendly agriculture and pay more attention to animal welfare. I think this is very important. When everyone is supporting such a value, when the demand for such products becomes higher, more people will be encouraged to join such industries, and the price will be reduced to a price that most people can and are willing to afford. And then through consumption to form a positive cycle.

On the other hand, human beings have never been so easy to cook. It was very inconvenient to buy good ingredients in the past. Now you want to buy the best meat and oil, and everything is easy to get through the Internet, so people are encouraged to cook at home as much as possible!

Peng: that's right! Everyone quickly buy our rice, I want to quickly become a lady (laughter)! When it comes to cooking, I find that there are many cooking programs on TV, and some male chef or some famous chef will teach everyone to cook on TV, but even if there are so many cooking programs, our take-out rate is still very high. don't you think it's contradictory to go home to eat lunch?

However, if you really want to support land-friendly agriculture, get into the habit of cooking. I know that office workers are very busy, and it is already eight or nine o'clock after work, but during the holidays, they can cook a good meal for themselves or their families, buy some better materials, and be nice to themselves. at the same time, with actions to support Taiwan's local agricultural products, or animal-friendly meat, there is really no need to be very particular about cooking at home. Sometimes I share photos of orcs cooking, but also to encourage people to cook!

Small books and vegetables produce their own rice. Q7: what abilities or traits do you think your children should possess in the face of an unknown future? How to train children to have the corresponding energy in life?

Peng: the situation of orcs is actually quite special, and it has not been very smooth in interpersonal relations. The teacher also thinks that this child is careless and untaught. When I was a child, I was often commented like this by my teacher, so I know how I feel. This kind of situation is usually just not interested in something, and the more you force him, it will be counterproductive. So after discussing with him, I decided to let him try to teach himself for a semester this year.

Orcs have always dreamed of becoming a marine biologist. As long as we will support him as long as we can, the deficiency depends on how he can make up for it when he grows up. So this semester, he took free diving classes and put farming into nature courses. With the attitude and perseverance shown at present, it seems that self-study is quite suitable for him.

But my sister pineapple is not suitable at all. Pineapple needs to socialize and interact with people very much, and she also has her own ideas. As a mother, I guide them, but I don't force them to be what they must become in the future. When I was a child, my life was filled with cram schools and talent classes. I found what I really wanted to do very late. Looking back, I felt that these things wasted a lot of time of exploration and study. So when I become a mother, I choose to respect what my children want to do, but I will let them know that they are responsible for their actions and give them the lead in their lives.

Pan: life is very mysterious. Children are really independent individuals. My two children are so close in age, but their personalities, food they like, and their ideas about life in the future are completely different, like the eldest. So far, they are still aiming to become sociologists. The second has always been interested in biology and life sciences, and he thinks that it is too tiring for social sciences to read so many texts. But no matter how different children's personalities and interests are, I always believe that some universal values are classical and immutable when born as a human being.

I personally think that empathy, thirst for knowledge and perseverance are very important. if one has empathy, there will be no discrimination, no wrong words, no wrong decisions. If a person has a thirst for knowledge, no matter what field of work he is engaged in, he will be able to keep up with the changes of the world without falling behind, while perseverance is to let the child focus on the things he is passionate about. I hope that children can continue, steady, bear to pursue their ideals lonely.

So I encourage my children to read. When they are teenagers, they spend a lot of time making friends, exploring interpersonal relationships and sliding their mobile phones. I still kindly remind them that in any case, it is necessary to maintain the quantity and quality of reading. There is a lot of knowledge in the book to stimulate children's thinking, and I often discuss, chat and exchange ideas and experiences with my children. After all, empathy and perseverance are quite abstract. There is no way one, two, three or SOP to encourage reading, parents' teaching, and respect for their children's sexual development, bit by bit.

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