The door-to-door son-in-law has changed and is busy with getting rich in the tea garden.

Wearing a suit and tie and hair gel in the middle part, Zhao Zhanhai's slightly thin face shows a bit of spirit. It is hard to imagine that half a year ago, he still had dishevelled hair and unshaven beard, went to the tea garden every day, and saw when he was drunk and decadent.

"when you are a boss, you should pay attention to your image." Whenever someone asks about his changes, Zhao Zhanhai always says shyly.

Zhao Zhanhai, 45, lives in Nanchuan Village, Nanlong Town, Linxia Village, Linxia City. in fact, Zhao Zhanhai's husband and wife are relatively harmonious. A pair of children have been admitted to university one after another, and they can also be regarded as people with light on their faces. how can they give people the impression of decadence?.

This starts with Zhao Zhanhai's family role-his father-in-law is childless and has only one daughter. Zhao Zhanhai is a door-to-door son-in-law who lives with his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

In some rural areas where ideas are relatively backward, door-to-door sons-in-law often attract strange attention from others. To stand upright and gain recognition, the door-to-door son-in-law needs to make more efforts, and Zhao Zhanhai is no exception.

Since Zhao Zhanhai arrived in Nanchuan Village more than 10 years ago, the relationship between Zhao Zhanhai and his father-in-law has become more and more tense day by day.

In the opinion of his father-in-law, Zhao Zhanhai works with the decoration team outside, doing what he has to do, and being idle at home without work, lacking a sense of aggressiveness. Unable to bear the appearance of his son-in-law not striving for progress, the grumpy father-in-law scolded his son-in-law and showed no kindness at all.

With no money and no approval from his father-in-law, Zhao Zhanhai naturally has no "status" among the young people in the village.

No respect at home, no face outside, for a long time, Zhao Zhanhai simply broke the jar, began to escape from life, went out to drink, went home to sleep, all the time looked depressed.

Looking at the son-in-law who "can't hold on to the wall", his father-in-law completely lost confidence. Slowly, they hardly said a word when they met.

The young, the strong, the unmotivated; the old, the small, the lack of labor-this is how a not-so-poor family goes to poverty.

After Linxia City carried out the work of "helping the poor by virtue", Zhao Zhanhai was identified as the key aid object of "poverty alleviation by virtue" in Nanlong Town.

Rome is not built in a day. It is not easy to do Zhao Zhanhai's ideological work.

Wang Zhiqiang, full-time deputy director of the political Science and Law Office of Nanlong Town, is a member of the working group on "helping Zhao Zhanhai with virtue." although he was psychologically prepared to "the family's contradictions are difficult to resolve," he asked Zhao Zhanhai out for the first time. I was pushed back by the other side with a word of "not seeing".

What shall I do? Several people in the working group discussed it and came in turn. If you don't believe the iron pestle, you can't grind it into a needle.

Zhao Zhanhai could not argue and agreed to sit down and talk. But when he met, he didn't say a word, and he couldn't go on.

"it's definitely not going to work like this." After Zhao Zhanhai left, Zhang Qi, a cadre of Nanshan afforestation station in Linxia City, suggested that we should start from the weakest place in Zhao Zhanhai's heart.

Zhang Qi is the cadre of Zhao Zhanhai's family in the work of "precise poverty alleviation", and he is quite familiar with the situation of this family. He feels that one of the important reasons why Zhao Zhanhai has not left his father-in-law's house for so many years is that he cares about his two children very much.

"from the point of view of the doll." According to Zhang Qi's proposal, the cadres met with Zhao Zhanhai again.

As soon as the working group mentioned two children, it poked Zhao Zhanhai in the heart.

"it is said nearby that both children have been admitted to college and need money; from a distance, the dolls will have to get married in the future, and fathers should set an example for them, right?"

"if you look like this, what will the dolls think? how can they tell others about their father when they find a date?"

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"I feel bitter in my heart." Zhao Zhanhai bowed his head, put his hands over his eyes, and opened the chatterbox.

At that moment, Zhao Zhanhai's grievances, which had accumulated for many years and were difficult to tell to others, were like water that had opened the floodgates, and all of a sudden it was poured out.

"We'll come down and talk to your father-in-law, but you do have a lot of problems. You must get up quickly and live like a man."

After many exchanges, Zhao Zhanhai finally cheered up. He decided to apply for a double loan to open a tea garden. Over the years, he went to the tea garden when he had nothing to do, and virtually accumulated a lot of experience in opening a tea garden.

In October 2015, amid the loud sound of firecrackers, Zhao Zhanhai's tea garden opened on the outskirts of Linxia. Over the past few months, Zhao Zhanhai got up early and came back late, kept the tea garden in good order, and business improved day by day. Under the coordination of the working group, the relationship between Zhao Zhanhai and his father-in-law also loosened and began to "warm up."