Don't let rural parents help with the children.

Many of the post-90s generation have reached the age of having children, a generation that grew up under the bombardment of Internet information. Although many parents are not really prepared, so many people are just born regardless of raising.

Some because want to live two people, do not want children to disturb; some are afraid of trouble; some two people in order to reduce the burden of children have to be handed over to parents.

Many young parents who come out of rural areas will send their children back to their hometown for foster care, which is inappropriate. There will be all kinds of hidden dangers, or need to be cautious.

Living conditions in rural areas are relatively poor and medical conditions are not perfect.

Not to mention other rural sanitation conditions can not keep up, children in the process of growth is very easy to be affected by the outside world, do not develop good hygiene habits is very influential in later life.

Moreover, rural people do not pay enough attention to illness, coupled with the elderly parents, once the child falls ill, it is easy to have serious consequences if they cannot seek medical treatment in time.

The phenomenon of generation separation in rural areas is obvious.

They all said that they were separated by generations, especially in the countryside. Put the child next to grandparents that is simply a small emperor, small public lift. Children are too young to judge, and the quality of snacks in rural Ministores is not guaranteed but attractive to children.

Usually, when a child wants to eat, grandparents will not refuse. I don't think it's healthy. It's always about the kids. And it gives the child the illusion. The whole world belonged to him, so naturally, someone would buy what he wanted. It will develop an indulgent and willful personality.

Easy to produce psychological gap, alienated from parents.

When children reach school age, many people take them back to raise them. This is a rebirth for children, who need to adapt to a new environment.

There is an old saying in the countryside that one looks old at the age of three. In fact, the child's character before school has been formed more than half, after taking back to the side to want to give the child to correct the problem will have the opposite effect. Children feel less free around their parents and more alienated from their biological parents.

Xiao Bian still advocates raising his own children. The child is born as a blank sheet of paper. A large part of the child's future is determined by family education. Moreover, most of the grandparents in the countryside were old, and it was very hard to take care of the children.