The sorrow of rural women is deceived by the matchmaker, but the second marriage will be better off.

The editor's family is in the countryside, because the family runs a small shop, which is a place for ordinary junior high school students to study snacks. The shop in the small village is not big, but there are still some gossip and trivial things that anyone can encounter.

Once an aunt came to the store with a child to buy whatever she wanted. I was surprised at that time that when I moved to the countryside, I didn't spoil my children in this way. Upon careful inquiry, I found out that she didn't give birth to the baby, she was just a stepmother.

The stepmother came from the next county town and divorced her husband five years ago. At that time, her husband was proficient in eating, drinking, whoring and gambling at home, and the children did not care. When they came back every day, they just lay in bed and waited for them to wake up drunk. The stepmother's surname is Zhang. Ms. Zhang and her husband were introduced by matchmakers. Rural matchmakers usually praise their blind dates to the sky in order to make money. Ms. Zhang was a high school student, and it was a great thing to study at that time. Ms. Zhang's grandfather had a higher vision because her daughter had read a book, and as a result, her daughter didn't talk about her favorite marriage at the age of 25. At that time, there was no way, and my daughter's marriage could not be delayed, so she married her present ex-husband under the instigation of the matchmaker. At that time, it was said that his ex-husband had a house and his family had more than ten mu of land. I also went to primary school and had some spare money. At that time, I had already repaired the house and had three floors, so I was waiting to marry a wife.

Ms. Zhang married and lived a smooth life a few years ago. But do not know that the ex-husband has a lot of bad friends, the ex-husband gradually fell in love with running to the big city, began to learn to drink and gamble. In one year, it was said that she was going out to earn money, but in fact, she only transferred 5000 yuan when she was pregnant. Ms. Zhang's ex-husband was still outside when her child landed. When I come back during the Spring Festival, I don't know where the rest of the time is. In the next three years, the child was 10 years old, and his ex-husband came back. But he spent all day outside playing cards and gambling with others. After losing money, he came back to ask Ms. Zhang for it, and ordered her to ask her father-in-law for money if she didn't. This life was restless, and she thought of divorce, but her ex-husband refused to torture each other for 10 years, and finally divorced her husband five years ago, raising by the husband's husband.

Ms. Zhang met her current husband when she was in business. The husband is 52 years old, and his wife abandoned him at the age of 48. Disdaining his poor family, he was tricked into marrying from the mountains by a matchmaker. I am not young at the age of 48. I have been single until I met Ms. Zhang. The two people get along well, and they are not bad in temperament, so they plan to be together. The husband is 48 years old and Ms. Zhang is 40 years old. it is not easy for the two to meet in middle age. So, not long ago, I took my husband's child to the store to shop, and he was not very hard on the 7-year-old child, and the child liked the stepmother very much.

Every time I see the two of them passing by the door, even if there are villagers saying that her husband is well married and that the wife now has the ability to take care of her children, I laugh it off. How can we understand the lives and sufferings of others?

Rural women can be deceived by matchmakers for the first time, but they have to open their eyes for the second time. Rural women can also remarry and take control of their own lives, because the people next to you will accompany you to the old age.

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