Cangzhou: Good daughter-in-law Liu Zhirong takes care of paralyzed husband for 30 years

In Xiaozhuangzi Village, Jinniu Town, Qingxian County, there is such a good wife praised by everyone. Her name is Liu Zhirong. Thirty years ago, when her husband was paralyzed by cerebral hemorrhage due to overwork, she resolutely took up the burden of the family on her own. Over the past 30 years, she has taken good care of her husband, and the story of the family facing life optimistically and strongly has been told by the neighbors.

The husband was paralyzed and the family hit rock bottom.

Recently, the reporter came to the home of Liu Zhirong in Xiao Zhuangzi Village, Jinniu Town, Qingxian County. She was doing a full body massage for her husband Ji Zhenjia, who was lying on the Kang. She told reporters that this is something she needs to do every day for 30 years, and there is a lot more she needs to do every day besides massage.

Liu Zhirong, 61, and Ji Zhenjia, 60, are ordinary villagers in Xiaozhuangzi village. In order to earn money to support his family, Ji Zhenjia not only planted the land, but also worked in a factory in the village. The children are cute and lovely, and the parents and brothers get along well with each other. When the family is looking forward to a better future, a sudden disaster makes the whole family fall into the bottom of the valley.

In 1989, Ji Zhenjia, 33, suddenly fainted at work and his family rushed him to hospital, but this time he was unable to stand up. After examination, Ji Zhenjia was due to overwork and sudden cerebral hemorrhage. "the answer given by the doctor at that time was paralysis, and I might never be able to stand up. I thought the sky was falling, but I couldn't be half discouraged for the sake of this family." Liu Zhirong choked up and recalled the scene at that time. 'at that time, the children were young, everyone was waiting to take care of themselves, and they had to take care of it anyway, 'she said. Take good care of and never forget your vows for 30 years

After grief, life is calm again. Liu Zhirong doesn't know how to spend the rest of his life. What other difficulties will be encountered in life?. In the face of countless unknowns, the simple and kind Liu Zhirong has only one idea, and no matter how hard it is, he has to grit his teeth and stick to it.

Over the past 30 years, Liu Zhirong has never forgotten the oath he truly adhered to. When he was just discharged from the hospital, his husband would not turn over and his limbs had no strength, so he needed help to eat, drink and scatter, because his body was unconscious and often peed on his trousers or mattresses. Liu Zhirong prepared five or six pairs of cotton trousers and a dozen mattresses for his husband every winter. She wakes up five or six times a night to help her husband turn over.

Due to the lack of financial resources, Liu Zhirong persisted in farming his family's more than 9 mu of land, carrying water, farming, washing clothes and cooking. And take care of her paralyzed husband in bed. In order to treat her husband, the family owed a foreign debt of 20,000 yuan. Twenty thousand yuan was astronomical for such a family at that time, but the weak Liu Zhirong finally chose to face it strongly. Whenever night falls, after his family falls asleep, Liu Zhirong will do some odd jobs to subsidize the family.

During the interview, Liu Zhirong told reporters that when Ji Zhenjia was just paralyzed, he was emotionally unstable, often smashed things, said bad things to Liu Zhirong, and even thought of committing suicide. Liu Zhirong often said to him, "you are the head of the family, the father of the child, and our backbone. As long as you are still here, we are a family. No matter how big the difficulties are, we can overcome them." With Liu Zhirong's encouragement and comfort, Ji Zhenjia decided to live a good life.

Make concerted efforts to bring happiness back.

For 30 years, like taking care of children, Liu Zhirong meticulously arranged her husband's daily meals and daily life. In order to make her husband recover better, Liu Zhirong also gives him massage and exercise in his spare time. After Ji Zhenjia was paralyzed, Liu Zhirong focused on taking care of her husband, sometimes neglecting the care of his children. "the children are still young, and I don't have time to take care of them. Sometimes they put on their clothes and let them practice on their own. My family is very greedy. When people stew fish during the Spring Festival, she goes to see them. Other children can buy a popsicle in summer, but our children have never eaten a popsicle. I feel particularly indebted to the child. " Liu Zhirong said. Although Liu Zhirong did not take care of the child enough, the child became more and more sensible, comforting the father in the sick bed and the mother who worked day and night with excellent grades every year.

Liu Zhirong devoted all his energy and love to her husband and children, but the long-term burden of life made Liu Zhirong's health much worse than before. Nowadays, the children have grown up, got married and started their careers. Liu Zhirong's kind and tenacious character has always infected and influenced the children, who are very filial to their parents. Talking about the future life, simple and honest Liu Zhirong smiled faintly, she said that the most difficult days are over, I hope that the future life can slowly get better.

At the end of the interview, Ji Zhenjia said that his wife was reluctant to buy a decent dress these years, and it was cold. He hoped that a kind-hearted person could buy a down jacket for him, and he wanted to give it to his good wife Liu Zhirong himself.