Hebei "index finger girl" Guo Chunmei:"My world is still very open"

Guo Chunmei, who lives in the north station district of Renqiu Mining area in Huabei Oilfield, was found to have congenital progressive spinal muscular dystrophy shortly after she was born. Although she has never experienced the taste of walking and never went to school for a day, she teaches herself to draw and write poems, starts her own business, and helps others find jobs, constantly looking for the sunshine of life. "although I only have one finger to move now, my world is still very open," she said.

Self-improvement

Work hard to self-study since childhood, like reciting poetry and painting

"I want to be like a butterfly in Siberia, flying in the cold wind and struggling in the cold. Even if I am frozen and frozen by snow and ice, I will wake up in the coming year and regain my youth and vitality." As a result of childhood illness, Guo Chunmei even had to rely on things to support her body, so she could not go out or go to school like other children. When she was young, her limited literacy mainly came from television. later, when her mother Li Xiuhong was tutoring her cousin in pinyin, Guo Chunmei sat on one side to "secretly" write and read aloud.

Guo Chunmei asked her mother to buy a lot of pinyin books. She knew more and more words and her vision became more and more bright. "my niece knows a lot of things. I like to hear her tell stories." Every time Chunmei goes back to her hometown, her aunt specially takes her to her home to stay for a few days. The love from elders and brothers and sisters is not only the spiritual strength to support Chunmei, but also cultivates her cheerful and strong personality.

"I don't have to write beautiful verses, but if I want to, at least I have to look something." Guo Chunmei likes history books and ancient poetry best. After reading more, she began to try to record her feelings and feelings in the form of poetry. After reading Cai Wenji's story, Guo Chunmei wrote the secluded lyre and listened to Hu Jing's music. After reading A Dream of Red Mansions, she wrote, "this is an immortal grass in the spiritual world, and the grace of nectar is rewarded with tears. I only sigh that the cause and effect of the underworld is determined, and my life will eventually bear a grudge against the bank of the Ling River, "to express my condolences and regrets for Lin Daiyu.

In 2003, Guo Chunmei asked repeatedly, and her mother finally bought her a used computer. Guo Chunmei learned to type, surf the Internet and make animations. On the Internet, she learned the essentials of ancient-style poetry creation and asked netizens for advice on writing skills, and her ancient-style poems began to look like them.

The kitten at home, the bird in the tree, the flower in front of the door, the lady in the book. Chunmei also learned to draw without a teacher, and was called a "little talented girl" by her friends.

Self-reliance

Just a little bit of power to share the responsibility of supporting the family

The main manifestation of progressive spinal muscular dystrophy is continuous muscle atrophy, resulting in varying degrees of muscle weakness and motor disorders. As she grows older, Guo Chunmei's condition continues to worse. apart from the brain that is still active and smart, the only physical strength that can be controlled is the little mouse-tapping strength of the right index finger. But she used her own wisdom and relied on this small amount of strength to earn an income to support her family.

Three years ago, Guo Chunmei applied to become an online store customer service in the mood of giving it a try. After a series of business training, Guo Chunmei officially took up the post. Not only to maintain the operation of the online store, the customer service of the clothing store also needs to understand the fashion trend, recommend and introduce the appropriate clothing to the buyer. However, Guo Chunmei has never been to the mall since she was a child, nor has she paid attention to the information on clothing before. In a month, her performance is the worst in customer service.

After the online store owner knew about her situation, he helped her find a lot of fashion e-magazines and fashion videos. At the same time, Guo Chunmei herself signed up for several online training courses and began to learn from the most basic knowledge. From the rookie class to the supervisor class, Guo Chunmei's efforts and progress were appreciated by the training teachers and often followed her as an example to encourage other students. Two years ago, Guo Chunmei opened her own women's bag shop online with a monthly income of nearly 2,000 yuan.

When she got her first month's salary, Guo Chunmei bought a pair of soft-soled leather shoes for her mother and a brand coat for her uncle. "I really didn't expect that I would still be able to spend the money earned by girls in my life." Guo Chunmei's mother wiped her tears and said with emotion.

Help others

Help more disabled friends to face life confidently

Due to physical reasons, Guo Chunmei does not spend much time outdoors and enjoying the sun, but her heart is always a piece of sunshine. "although online store customer service does not make much money, it is also a way to prove the value of its existence for the disabled." After successfully accumulating some customer service experience and contacts in online stores, Guo Chunmei recommended to her customer service company that disabled people who are interested in working should go to work and study to help them become self-reliant.

For more than two years, Guo Chunmei has successfully introduced eight disabled friends to become online store customer service. Xiaohe, who lives in Guangdong, is also a bedridden patient for many years. After getting his salary, he specially bought a water cup and mailed it to Guo Chunmei as a gift. Juanzi, who suffers from dwarfism, has received enthusiastic help from Chunmei in her work and life, and now the two have become girlfriends who talk about everything.

"in the past, I always accepted the help of others. Several friends of my mother chipped in to buy my computer, and my wheelchair was funded by the Renqiu disabled Persons' Federation, which made me feel warm and happy. Now I can help others. It feels so good." Guo Chunmei thinks she is becoming more and more "useful".

In her 30 years of life, Guo Chunmei has experienced the inconvenience caused by physical disability and the warmth of the world, but she has always told herself to live a strong life, to be tolerant and kind to everyone she meets. Guo Chunmei once calmly talked to her mother, hoping that when she left the world, her mother could donate her available organs: "donate my eyes to people who can't see, so he can show me the world, and my daughter, I can go further!" Shi Ziqiang Shi Jinghua