If you read it once, you want to read it twice, but you have to read it three times.

1. If a person wants to be happy, he should not be too smart or too stupid. This state between intelligence and stupidity is called wisdom.

Feeling: people are too smart to be on guard, people are too stupid to be manipulated, and there is no way to get their hearts. It's rare to be confused!

2. The way of employing people: the first to use a saint, the second to use a gentleman, rather to use mediocrity than villains.

Feeling: this is the case, people often say that the really bad guys are not terrible, but the terrible ones are fake good people (villains).

3. Let go if you don't want to love, shut up if you don't want to talk, and let go if you don't want to hate.

Feeling: everything will pass, there is no need to be too persistent.

4. Man is a contradictory animal. When there is nothing, he thinks everything is good, but when he has a bear's paw, he thinks the fish is better.

Feeling: people can not be too greedy, it is impossible to achieve everything. I have seen such a saying: "the poor want to be rich, the rich want to live forever, and immortal people are infinitely worried-- when will this day end?"... " Cherish what you have is the key!

5. All negative emotions and mindsets have no effect on the people and things you are dissatisfied with, but on yourself and your family and friends!

Feeling: people should be optimistic, life is very short, sometimes a turn around is the end …...

6. love that does not feel pain is not true love, and marriage that does not feel happy is not real marriage.

Feeling: love is sometimes a joke that can be laughed off with a smile, but marriage is a novel, and happiness is a kind of understanding.

7. don't always stare at other people's pot lids in your marriage, you know, the bottom of every pot is black.

Feeling: "every family has its own difficult classics!" Yes, it is.

8. The advantage of telling the truth is that you don't have to remember what you said.

Perception: usually a lie can be explained by ten or more lies. Don't live so hard.

9. The pledge of love and love is a heavyweight promise that often embarrasses the mountains and the sea.

Feeling: do not easily believe the promise, a "take" is better than ten "I will give you".

Time is a terrible thing. As it goes by, there are always some truths to be covered up forever, and there are always some truths to be revealed slowly. Sometimes, inadvertently, some truth comes to you.

Feeling: speechless. Don't always take chances when you do anything. "if you want others to know, unless you don't do it yourself" is also the truth.

11. The bitterness and sweetness of coffee lies not in how to stir, but in whether to put sugar; a period of pain lies not in how to forget, but in whether we have the courage to start anew.

Feeling: the real pain is that there is no one to share for you, how to get out of the shadow only rely on yourself.

12. In life, only 5% of people are wonderful, only 5% are painful, and the remaining 90% are insipid. People are often seduced by 5% splendor, endure 5% pain, and then walk through life in 90% mediocrity.

Feeling: do you really want to be controlled by 10% in your whole life? Take it easy, take it easy, plain and light is life itself.

13. True love is not knowing how good the other person is to be together, but being reluctant to leave knowing how bad the other person is.

Feeling: love a person, not only to love each other's advantages but also to accept each other's shortcomings, no one is perfect, do not give up is the highest realm of love!

14. Two people who have been together for a long time, like the left hand and the right hand, will choose to stay together even if they are no longer in love, because it takes a lot of courage to give up so many years of love. Maybe there will be someone you love in your life, but in the end, it is a passer-by, and you will still hold your left or right hand and go on.

Feeling: "hold hands and grow old together". At first it was an oath, then a responsibility, then a habit.

15. Some people you have seen for a lifetime but ignored for a lifetime, some people you only looked at but affected your life, some people enthusiastically for you but happy but neglected by you, some people let you have a short-term happiness but get the chain of your thoughts, some people are willing to N years but you rejected N years, some people an unintentional expression has become an eternal yearning, this is life.

Perception: the reason why there are different types of "some people" is that they enter your line of sight at different times and circumstances. Only at the right time and in the right environment-the person who comes into your sight can enter your heart.

16. Don't love the wrong person because you are lonely, let alone live a lonely life because you love the wrong person. Try to trust in order to be happy. Fate is this book, if you turn it inadvertently, you will miss it, and if you read it too seriously, you will cry.

Feeling: fate is an arrangement that is unpredictable and can not be deliberately pursued. Books with beautiful covers are easy to attract people's attention, but there are not many books worth tasting and collecting; people who write books with painstaking efforts often do not have the time and money to decorate them. Many books are boring from form to content, but they are just a kind of life.

17. A woman will remember the man who makes her laugh, and the man will remember the woman who makes him cry, but the woman will always stay with the man who makes her cry, and the man will stay with the woman who makes him laugh.

Feeling: crying or laughing is the expression of true feelings. But for most people, laughing is better than crying.

18. Why does it take a lifetime to forget a person? Because, you have not tried to forget, but have been missing, looking forward to, dreaming!

Feeling: can not forget, can not forget, let it occupy a place in the heart, but not all.

19. In the world of love, no one is sorry to others, only those who do not know how to cherish others.

Feeling: we should cherish not only each other, but also our own feelings. For those who do not cherish you, it is not necessary for him or her to say "I'm sorry", you should take the initiative to say "I'm sorry" (bye-bye)!

20. The grievance that can be expressed is not grievance, and the lover who can be taken away is not a lover.

Feeling: if you don't express your grievance, you can only grieve yourself; if you don't let go of those who don't love you, you won't get the one you love.

21, the distance of the road does not represent the distance of the heart, a few phone calls does not mean that there is little concern, not seeing each other often does not mean that there is no missing, busy years should also cherish this care.

Feeling: the cowherd and the weaver girl are beautiful myths. Sometimes a light greeting is the truest expression of emotion!

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