The money I saved for my mother to buy a house, you give it to your brother as a betrothal gift? Give me my money back for divorce.

I worked hard to save money for my mother to buy a house, and you gave it to your brother as a betrothal gift? Give me my money back for divorce.

But we poor couples feel more sad about everything, and the biggest contradiction between husband and wife often comes from the economy. As the old saying goes, when a man marries a man, dresses and eats, a man in a family is supposed to be the main economic force, but our family is different. after marriage, we each use our own money and share all the expenses. I have already done this, but my husband is not aware of it.

My husband and I were introduced by a friend, he is from the city, and I come from the country, my father died young, my mother raised me through hard work, so my family is not good, my mother-in-law has always despised me. After marriage, in order not to let my mother-in-law pick and choose from me, my husband and I shared the family expenses equally, so my mother-in-law could not find fault with me. I have been working hard and saving money so that one day I can buy a house in the city and pick up my mother from my hometown in the country. I am usually very economical. I never buy clothes or cosmetics indiscriminately. I prepare lunch at home and take it to the company every day.

My husband is different from me. Maybe he grew up in the city and is used to spending a lot of money. Smoking and drinking, everything, and every now and then asked a group of friends to have dinner, play cards and sing songs. Although he and I have been married for two years, he is still the same moonlight clan as before marriage, and he can't save much money in a year. Although my husband and I have different values and concepts of life, we do not have any contradictions in other aspects, so we live in peace with each other.

Until some time ago, my brother-in-law was going to get married and was going to buy a wedding house, and my mother-in-law hinted that we, as brothers and sisters-in-law, should say something. At that time, I thought to myself, your son spends a lot of money and spends all his monthly salary. What do you want us to say, so I have been silent. But after a few days, my brother-in-law suddenly came to my house and thanked us for giving him 50,000 yuan for the down payment on the house. I was completely confused when I heard the news. Although I have never been in charge of my husband's money, I know that he has almost no savings. Where did the 50,000 yuan come from? I suddenly shuddered at the thought of this. I quickly found out my passbook and found that 50,000 yuan had been withdrawn.

I questioned my husband with my passbook, but he said that we are husband and wife, my savings are husband and wife's common property, and now my brother is in urgent need of money, it is only normal for him to use it. Hearing his words, I was furious. I yelled at him: "I worked hard to save money for my mother to buy a house. Why don't you give it to your brother as a betrothal gift and give me back the money for divorce?" I have been married to him for two years. I have been frugal in order to save money to buy a house for my mother, but he is generous to himself, but he has never bought anything for me. Now that I have the nerve to take away my hard-earned money, how can there be such a brazen man like him? His behavior really chills me. I think I really can't live with him any longer, but do you want to get this money back before you go? is it right for him to do so?

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