On the first day of the wedding, my mother-in-law only let me eat raw dumplings with tears and I was stunned.

On the first day of the wedding, my mother-in-law only let me eat raw dumplings with a table full of dishes. I was stupefied after eating them with tears.

I am a weak woman, and my mother is always worried that I will marry into a family where my mother-in-law is too strong, so I subconsciously have some "hostility" to my mother-in-law and look at her with skepticism. So when my mother-in-law gave me raw dumplings after my marriage, I thought she was deliberately embarrassing me, but when I knew the truth, I knew that I had wronged my mother-in-law, and my mother-in-law was kind.

I don't know if my parents are too strong and always take care of me better. As a result, my character is very weak and I have no idea about anything. When I was not in love, my mother told me not to find too many strong families for my mother-in-law when I got married, saying that I was afraid that I would be bullied when I got married. I always remember my mother's words. Later, I met my present husband, and we fell in love. After seeing my mother-in-law, I felt that she didn't say much, so I couldn't see her character, but I felt that she should not be the kind of tricky person, from the bride price before marriage to the wedding. It was all arranged by the mother-in-law, the mother-in-law was very generous, and my family was very satisfied, so everything went well in our wedding.

Because we were all busy until late and tired on the wedding day, it was time for lunch when we woke up on the first day after the wedding. When I was hungry, I went to the restaurant and saw a large table full of dishes. I was about to move chopsticks, but my mother-in-law stopped me and gave me a bowl of dumplings for me to eat. I thought my mother-in-law specially cooked dumplings for me, so I picked them up happily. I took a bite. It was unexpectedly found that the dumplings were raw.

I am very sad, is my mother-in-law making it difficult for me? Give me a kick as soon as you walk in the door? Although I thought so in my heart, I still ate it with tears. At that time, I was already aggrieved. I thought that the whole family was watching me eat, and no one helped me. Were they all waiting to see me laugh? Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law was very happy to see that I had finished eating. She gave me a big red packet and told me that this was their custom. Eating raw dumplings is synonymous with "giving birth". My mother-in-law is trying to give me a good sign, not to embarrass me. Then my mother-in-law served me soup and took care of me to eat vegetables. I was stunned when I looked at my mother-in-law.

Because of the differences in customs, I almost misunderstood my mother-in-law. When I knew my mother-in-law's kindness and looked at her loving smile, I was very moved. It turned out that I was thinking too much. I thought that our marriage went so smoothly, so it can be seen that my mother-in-law is not a difficult person to get along with. What am I not satisfied with having such a good mother-in-law? People grow in flesh. I want to get along well with my mother-in-law in the future. If I am good to her, she will also be good to me. Only when the family is harmonious, can everything else be plain sailing. Am I right?

(from readers' contribution, the picture of this article comes from the Internet)