After the second child, my mother-in-law was overjoyed. After the month, I filed for divorce.

My mother-in-law was overjoyed when she had her second child. After the month, I filed for divorce.

I have no idea how high a position I can get when I marry my husband. I think as long as they respect me, it will be enough. I can make my own money, and I have my own social circle, but it's really unacceptable if I don't get respect. But unexpectedly, the thing I cared about most happened. At a time when the whole family was immersed in the joy of having my second son, I asked for a divorce after sitting for a month.

My mother-in-law urged me to have a baby soon after I married my husband. I was actually reluctant at that time, because I thought we were still very young. We can think about children when we have a stable career and a certain foundation for a few years in the workplace. I told my mother-in-law that we didn't want to have children, but we just wanted to have them a few years later. But my mother-in-law said well at that time that she would take care of the baby without me, saying that I could still live my present life and continue to work. I believed my mother-in-law, but later it turned out that it was not what she had promised. After the baby was born, I couldn't do it regardless of worry. I had to do a lot of things myself. I was persuaded by my mother-in-law and husband. I didn't work until I was two years old, but I was forced to concentrate on taking care of the baby. I also feel that I have to do my duty as a mother, so I don't have any complaints.

Later, when the child was finally a little older, I felt relieved to let my mother-in-law take care of it, and I could go back to work, because when I chatted with my friends before, I really felt that I was out of touch with society, which made independent women like me very nervous. I think I have to go back to society and have my own independent source of income. But before I could tell my family what I thought, my mother-in-law told me that she wanted me to give my son another companion, saying that a child was too lonely and that the two children would not be bullied.

Hearing this, I refused on the spot, saying that it was impossible for me to agree to this request. Unexpectedly, my mother-in-law tampered with it and made me pregnant again. I was really devastated at that time, but there was nothing I could do about it. After all, there was nothing wrong with the baby inside me. Later, the baby was born, watching them overjoyed to coax the child's appearance, I was really exhausted. And my husband is also very happy, completely do not understand my feelings. After sitting for a month, I filed for divorce.

In my mother-in-law, I didn't get basic respect, and no one listened to what I said, saying that I was the wife of the family. I felt that I was more like a machine for giving birth to their children, which made me unbearable, and I really couldn't live such a life. I have expressed my position many times, but it is of no use. I don't see any hope. What else can I do but divorce?

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