My pregnant mother-in-law came to take care of her and went downstairs to buy a bag of salt. After I came back, I decided to take her home.

My pregnant mother-in-law came to take care of her and went downstairs to buy a bag of salt. When I came back, I decided to take her home.

The reason why the two generations can have superior and inferior etiquette, a very important reason is because of the different living habits. Our ancestors wisely established etiquette, which not only taught us to respect the elders, but also restrained the elders from taking care of the younger generation. Complete indulgence will cause chaos, too much restraint will cause trouble everywhere, learn to be an enlightened elder, do not make it difficult for the younger generation.

My mother-in-law is a very strong woman, which is related to her life experience. She raised her husband and brother-in-law alone and experienced a lot of hardships. She can also create a business miracle while sailing against the current. It can be seen that her mother-in-law is a heroine. When my husband and I first got married, my mother-in-law didn't live with us, but when my mother-in-law offered to come to my house to take care of me, my "hard life" officially began.

My mother-in-law has always taken care of me according to her experience when she was pregnant and believes in the words of other elders. She always forced me to eat some food that she thought was good for pregnant women. I ate chicken soup and fish soup every day. At first, I ate it obediently, but after eating it for a month, I smelled fish and felt sick when I saw the chicken. This is not the most terrible, occasionally heard of some can "give birth to a boy" folk prescription, she will force me to keep eating, if you want to change, unless you hear another "more effective" folk prescription. Especially recently, my pregnancy and vomiting has become serious, this kind of pregnancy and vomiting reaction from food is more obvious, but in the face of a strong mother-in-law, all my resistance will be defused cleverly by this "heroine". My mother-in-law takes good care of me. I feel sorry for her hard work. I can't bear to make her sad. I have been entangled in the contradiction between affection and suffering.

The day before yesterday, when she was cooking fish, she suddenly said that there was no salt at home and wanted to go out to buy it. I didn't want her to go downstairs to buy salt because she was too tired. But when I came back, I decided to take her home. When my mother-in-law came home after buying salt, a strong smell of fish came to her face. when I entered the door, she had just finished dealing with a big fat fish and smiled and told me that the fish was very good today and let me drink more fish soup later. This sentence is like a signal, it makes me feel a strong sense of vomiting. I ran to the bathroom and threw up, feeling dizzy and uncomfortable when I came out.

I simply thought of avoiding a meal, so I told my mother-in-law that I was not feeling well and had some light food for lunch, and my mother-in-law agreed to my request without much thought. But I knew in my heart that such disguised discomfort would not solve the problem. I could not bear to extinguish my mother-in-law's enthusiasm, and I could not bear the pain that the food brought to me. I really don't know what to do to have the best of both worlds. In the eyes of others, I am a happy princess, and only I know the pain.

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