From brother and sister to husband and wife fall in love for 80 years: this is the most beautiful love

Source: Beiyang House

The person who took this picture is

64-year-old Xu Yingzhe

Qinhuangdao photographer

The two old people in the picture

It's his father and mother.

The photo was taken in the intensive care unit.

My father had already been notified of his critical illness at that time.

One day, he woke up in a coma.

Trembling and saying: kiss, kiss

The old lady burst into tears when she heard this

She leaned over and kissed her husband affectionately

Xu Yingzhe said

This is a magical picture.

After the mother kissed her father,

My father miraculously lived for more than a year.

01

Brother and sister become husband and wife

A dull day

After the appearance of love

Grandpa's name is Xu Guangyu.

Kissing his wife is Xu Aihua.

They are both surnamed Xu and were originally a brother and sister.

Their love story

Just like in Qiongyao TV series.

It's a match of fate.

In 1941, 6-year-old Xu Aihua

Has grown into a sensible "big girl"

On an ordinary afternoon

There's one at home, only better than her.

A little taller boy

The tallest two children are Xu Aihua (left) and Xu Guangyu (right).

The adults told the little boy

Don't call me uncle or aunt from now on.

Call Mom and Dad.

That year, the successor, Xu Guangyu, had just turned 7.

Only one year older than his sister Xu Aihua.

As a matter of fact, my sister Xu Aihua is not her own.

Her parents are actually her aunt and uncle.

This is fate.

Two unrelated children

Became brother and sister.

One is seven, the other is six.

They go to school together.

When we grew up together, we really grew up together.

My elder brother Xu Guangyu has excellent academic achievements.

Become a monitor year after year

Xu Aihua always takes his brother as an example.

Admire him, admire him

The flowers bloom every year and the years are bright.

At the age of the beginning of love

Subtle changes have gradually taken place in the hearts of the two people.

The younger sister's admiration for her brother turned into admiration.

The elder brother is more caring and loving to his sister.

One day at the age of 17

Xu Aihua received a letter

Look at the familiar font on the envelope

Her heart was beating a little fast.

Xu Aihua and Xu Guangyu are in their prime

This is the first love letter she received.

It's a courtship letter from her brother.

After reading the letter, Xu Aihua's face turned red.

She replied to her brother's letter

There are only three words in the letter: I agree

In this way, my 18-year-old sister Xu Aihua

Married his 19-year-old brother Xu Guangyu

Everything takes its course and is simple.

Two new quilts with big flowers

Two new clothes are the witness of their wedding.

Xu Aihua and Xu Guangyu, already parents

In this loving and loving family

No contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

A mother is not only a mother-in-law, but also a mother.

After marriage, they gave birth.

Three men, one girl and four children.

Four dolls, all brought up by grandparents

Family photo: husband and wife with parents and four children

Become a mother, Xu Aihua

Still devote himself to work.

During lactation, she is often a grandfather.

Push the cart to take the child to work.

The tall, handsome and talented Xu Guangyu

There are often some admirers around.

Be depressed because of seeing your lover

Xu Guangyu talks about his wife every day.

When you meet everyone, say: no one is as good as my wife

The sun used to slow down

The mail is slow in both cars and horses.

I can only love one person all my life.

The old days

It goes by quickly.

Time flows away like water

The years took away their young faces

But they can't take away their long-flowing love.

There is only one person with one hand.

This is the only person I love all my life.

The eldest son Xu Yingzhe said: don't say you don't believe it.

Actually, even I can't believe it.

My parents have lived together for nearly 80 years.

Never quarreled, never blushed.

Xu Yingzhe has four brothers and sisters.

They all follow their parents' example.

Once there is a posture to quarrel at home

Someone will jump out and say

Look at our parents.

As soon as this remark came out, it was calm.

As one grows old, there are groups of children and grandchildren.

Although life is dull.

But they try their best to make ordinary days

A little more romance and joy

Speaking of the most romantic gift from my husband

Xu Ai is 84 years old this year.

It's like going back to being young all of a sudden.

One year he came back from a business trip, she said with a smile.

Bought me a pair of half-heeled plastic sandals

Put on very foreign style.

I thought I would be happy forever.

Until the end of life

But whoever it is,

Can escape time and fate?

02

You are my eye.

I want to be your legs.

Xu Aihua said: I will never forget that day

The afternoon of May 17, 2012

While playing mahjong with his neighbors

He suddenly fell down.

The moment the husband fell to the ground

Xu Aihua sitting next to him

He held him in his arms.

A tall and handsome husband all his life

Suddenly looks like a different person.

Xu Aihua also aged a lot overnight.

Xu Guangyu was given six critically ill notices.

In a five-year career in treatment,

Although Xu Aihua is already in his 70s,

Although the children are also very filial.

But she insisted on taking care of her husband herself.

Feed medicine, feed rice, wipe your face and wash your body.

No matter how long the husband is in the hospital

She sleeps beside his hospital bed all the time.

On the little marching bed, he never leaves.

For fear of his wife's worry and sadness.

No matter how painful the examination and treatment

Xu Guangyu never cried out for pain.

And I've never lost my temper with my wife once.

The only change in his illness

Just become more and more like a child.

And more dependent on his wife.

Son Xu Yingzhe said

Once, he was too tired to see his mother.

Father fell asleep again.

Let my mother go home and have a rest.

Xu Guangyu woke up in the middle of the night

The first sentence asked, "where's your mother?"

Can't see his wife.

Xu Guangyu, who has been gentle all his life.

Go on and on like a child.

No matter how comforting the son is, it won't help.

I had to pick up my mother at three or four o'clock in the morning

Xu Guangyu saw his wife coming.

Like a child who made a mistake.

Be quiet at once

For five years, Xu Aihua has been like taking care of a child.

Take good care of her husband

The delicious food is always good.

Feed it to the husband's mouth first.

It's getting hot.

Xu Aihua insists on every day

Scrub the husband's body

Never yelled tired.

Never said a word annoying.

In order to remind myself

Give her husband the medicine on time

She posted it all over the room.

A note for "take medicine"

In order to keep track of her husband's physical condition in real time

Xu Aihua, 80 years old

The husband's blood oxygen and blood pressure are measured several times a day.

The kids all say

Mother has become half a doctor.

In order to make it convenient for his wife to get in and out.

When he was nearly eighty years old

Xu Aihua resolutely sold the old house that he had lived in for half his life.

Replace it with a new house with an elevator

Wherever you go,

The husband and wife are inseparable

when one is young

He is her eye.

Show her the complexity of the world.

She's old. She's his legs.

Is to buy vegetables at the vegetable market.

You have to push your husband.

Take him for a walk in the neighborhood

Watch the old buddies dance.

Take him to the sun.

Get some fresh air.

When the husband is in high spirits

Accompany him in the last game.

The shopping mall is bustling.

Just push her husband to look at all the layers.

The old house that has been sold has been demolished.

Bring your husband to see it.

The broken brick in the broken tile

They have too many happy memories.

The happiest time

With my children and grandchildren.

May 2016

Xu Guangyu is lying in the intensive care unit again.

This time

The doctor said, "prepare for the aftermath."... "

03

Wife, don't be afraid.

I wilted and walked...

That day, Xu Guangyu, who was sometimes unconscious and confused,

Began to call out the name of his wife.

Xu Aihua hurried to the bed and leaned down to listen to him.

Xu Guangyu used up all his strength.

Try very hard to say to her

It seems that this time it is for real.

Before the words were finished, 83-year-old Xu Aihua burst into tears

At this time, the granddaughter cried into tears.

The granddaughter leaned over and kissed her grandfather on the forehead

Xu Guangyu turned his wistful eyes to his wife.

Said trembling: kiss, kiss.

Xu Aihua leaned over

Gently close your eyes

Imprint your lips on your husband's lips.

To see this.

All the children present burst into tears

Son Xu Yingzhe pressed the shutter quickly.

Filmed this precious moment.

A picture without too many colors

Why is it so touching?

Because it is full of two octogenarian people in their eighties.

Deep affection for love

The reluctance and nostalgia for each other

In July 2017, 84-year-old Xu Guangyu

Or come to the end of life

Xu Aihua remembers that it was morning.

The husband was in better shape than ever that day.

Had half a bowl of noodles for breakfast

And ate five big cherries.

After 10:00, the children all left

Xu Guangyu called her to her side and said softly

"it's true this time. Don't be afraid.

I wilted and walked. "

Xu Aihua's tears fell to the ground.

An old wife who has been thinking of others all her life.

On his deathbed, he was still comforting himself.

As he himself said.

Xu Guangyu on that day

Quietly, wilting, gone.

"I haven't waited on him enough,"

"there's not a day when I don't miss him."

By this July

Xu Guangyu has been dead for a year.

Xu Aihua always has regrets and worries in his heart.

She hung the room full of her husband's paintings and

Pictures of them from young to old

Often watching.

Tears will flow down.

She knows that there is a sequence in which she leaves.

We have to separate sooner or later.

But she was still reluctant to give up.

From childhood to raising eyebrows

That pair has held broad palms for more than 70 years.

How can you just put it down?

Miss you and me, we know each other when we are young

Miss you and me, teenagers know each other

Miss you and me, be husband and wife

Miss you and me, have children.

Years, how can you walk so fast?

How long does love last?

Ten years is too little, and a hundred years is not enough.

84-year-old Xu Aihua is always talking silently.

I will try to live the rest of the day.

I'll miss you, too. I'll always miss you.

The Love between Xu Guangyu and Xu Aihua

It's not spectacular.

Their love for nearly 80 years

Like the life of most Chinese people.

Mostly trivial, ordinary and insipid

But why are we always moved by ordinary love?

Because of their affectionate and inseparable love

It is the most real, the rarest and the most precious.

This is the Chinese.

A long-flowing and long-lasting love

Warm years

Amazing time

Honey, kiss.

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