On the way to pick up relatives, my mother's family temporarily asked for an additional 50,000 bride price. The man froze when he made a move.

On the way to pick up relatives, my mother's family temporarily asked for an additional 50,000 bride price, and the man made a move, and everyone froze.

In many places, there are some special marriage customs, some can properly adjust the atmosphere, and some marriage customs cause many contradictions. Many people compare marriage to business, and we have no right to evaluate the correctness of this value, but marriage is different from business, and the dominance of love and affection means that marriage cannot be judged by rational thinking. Most people only get married once in their lives, so don't ruin the best memories just because of your capriciousness.

My wife and I had a very good relationship and had been dating for seven years. Her parents did not approve of us being together until my wife suddenly found out that she was pregnant unexpectedly. My wife has a sister, and her parents, for the sake of their youngest daughter, suggested that if I wanted to marry a wife, I should give a 200000 bride price and a house and car with my wife's name written on it, otherwise I would not talk about it. When my parents saw that I loved my wife so much, they agreed to all the conditions for the sake of my wife's baby, so my wife married with her son and got a marriage license with me, and the two families also arranged for the wedding.

On my wedding day, I happily went to pick up my relatives, but who knew that when I got to the door, my family temporarily added 50,000 yuan to the bride price, saying that it was to ask for a lottery. I didn't know there was such a custom. I was very anxious. at this moment, my mother-in-law put on airs and said to me with a straight face, "you can't marry a bride until you see this 50,000 yuan." This remark undoubtedly added fuel to the fire and infuriated me, and I angrily asked all the best men to follow me to the car, ready to wait until the bride came downstairs. Everyone present didn't expect me to do this and froze all of a sudden. My relatives advised me to give 50,000 yuan to my mother's family. I should not be childish at this time. My friends also advised me that my best brother even gave me 50,000 yuan in cash from the 70,000 yuan he had with me.

But I was very unconvinced. My wife and I loved each other very much. I almost emptied my parents' savings in order to meet my mother-in-law's requirements before marriage, but now I have temporarily changed my mind, even if I have enough money with me to meet my mother-in-law's requirements. I don't want to take it out like this. My mother-in-law despises me from the bottom of her heart. I don't want to give in any more. my wife is pregnant with a child and it is impossible to repent her marriage. I am determined to wait for my wife to come downstairs. At this time, my wife's relatives came down one after another to criticize me, but I ignored it. Seeing that I was so stubborn, my wife had no choice but to go downstairs and get on the wedding car. My wife didn't laugh the whole time, and we seldom spoke. At the wedding, my mother's family and my mother-in-law were like two hostile camps, and the atmosphere was very awkward.

After marriage, I specially thanked the friends who helped me with my busy life at that time. After three rounds of drinking, my friends began to criticize me for what I did wrong that day. My brother said, "that's to be happy. Everyone is happy when you take it out. You saved 50,000 yuan, but if your wife hadn't stopped it, the two families would have almost had a fight that day." In fact, I knew on my wedding day that I shouldn't have done this, but I paid too much to please my mother-in-law. I really don't want to bow any more. I am an uncle who married for love, not a monkey who is looked down upon by them. I admit what I did was wrong, but I don't think I did anything wrong.

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