Mom, your son owes people money. I have no objection to it. Why should I sell my house to pay off my debts?

Mom, I have no objection that your son owes people money. Why should I sell my house to pay off my debts?

As parents, they should not spoil their children too much, especially in families with two children, the preference for children should also be limited. Excessive preference will not only harm the preferred child, but also destroy the happy life of another child. Parents should be intelligent, not self-willed.

My brother and I grew up in a single-parent family. My brother is six years younger than me and has been taken good care of by my mother since childhood. Although my mother was partial to my younger brother, I volunteered to be a responsible sister when I thought that it was not easy for my mother to raise us alone and that my younger brother needed to be taken care of. The spoiling of my mother and I did not bring a good life to my brother. On the contrary, he was accustomed to a bad habit. The older he grew up, the more he could get into trouble. Every time something happened, I needed me to wipe his ass.

In the long run, his younger brother's misfortune became more and more serious, and people became more and more out of tune. Every day, he did not do his proper work and hang out with a gang of thugs. As an adult, he had nothing to do but knew how to go out and eat and drink with no three or four people. But my mother still dotes on him, and almost all the money I gave to my family over the years was lost by my mother to my brother. My salary is not low, but every month I give most of my money to my mother. Every time I see the balance left in my hand and think of giving my brother a waste of money, I can't help but feel aggrieved for myself and become impatient about wiping my brother's ass. Without such a brother, I would have bought a house and a car. Finally, I decided to think about myself, made a down payment with the money in my hand, and planned to settle down and get married in the city.

When I had just paid for a celebration, my mother called me again, saying that my brother had called someone, and that he had promised to pay 100000 yuan in compensation. I shouted to my mother angrily, "I don't have any money in my hand. Let the black sheep go to prison to learn how to be a man." then I hung up the phone and ignored my mother's calls. The next day, my mother unexpectedly came to my place of work to find me, and cried loudly when she met me, saying that I was a white-eyed wolf who refused to save my own brother. later, it became more and more serious, which had a great negative impact on me, so the leader even talked to me. I almost lost my job.

I told my mother that I had made a down payment with the money in my hand, and I didn't have any money. My mother's eyes suddenly lit up, and she forced me to sell my house to pay my brother's debts. At the moment, I am no longer willing to compromise, I do not want to build everything for such a bottomless pit, no matter how my mother begged me, I do not agree. Before my mother continued to scold me, I said to her, "every time you call me, you either ask me to wipe his ass or ask for money, not even a word of greeting, whether I am born to you or not," I cried. "Mom, I have no objection that your son owes people money, why let me sell my house to pay off my debts? Are you my mother or not? Mother did not speak, the expression left in a trance, went home to find relatives cobbled together to pay off the debt for his brother. According to the neighbor, my mother slapped her brother hard that day, and she finally figured out how difficult I had been these years. She also understood that her favouritism not only destroyed my brother, but also affected me.

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