Half a month after the divorce, the father called his mother to propose to remarry, and he told his mother with a sarcastic smile.

Half a month after the divorce, the father called his mother to propose to remarry. He told the story, and the mother smiled sarcastically.

Love is mutual, I am good to you, you are good to me, if only one side blindly pays, and the other side does not appreciate and does not understand, then the paying party will be disappointed for a long time, and these payments will be meaningless. And only by loving yourself first, can you love others and get the love of others. It was none other than my parents who made me understand these truths. Their love and marriage taught me the most real lesson, but the cost of this lesson was a little high.

As far as I can remember, my father was a shopkeeper who didn't do anything, and my mother took care of everything at home, so my mother always worked very hard and worked hard for the family, but my father was always ungrateful. I thought it was easy for my mother to be idle at home every day. I told my mother that my father should not talk about her like that and let her talk to my father. As a result, my mother told me that my father was working hard. It's okay.

In the next few years, my father's attitude towards my mother not only did not improve, but became worse and worse. Usually do not take my mother to go out, my mother sometimes asked to visit relatives with my father, were refused by my father, his reason is that my mother is too calculating, and slovenly, feel to take out to embarrass him, even if my mother begged my father in my name, he was not moved. My mother didn't see any hope and finally chose to let go. Later, when I heard that my father had a close relationship with a woman, my mother finally gave up and chose to divorce.

Unexpectedly, only half a month after the divorce, my father called my mother and wanted to remarry. He said that without my mother, he was not used to it. He couldn't eat breakfast every day, couldn't find clothes, and the house was a mess. After listening to this, my mother smiled sarcastically and told my father that she had worked hard for this family with no regrets, but she could not see my good, or even disliked me in every way, no matter how hard I tried, I could not see any hope. And now you regret it, but my heart has long been cold, will not forgive you at that time ruthless and ruthless, my mother firmly refused him. And then hung up before my dad could say anything more. After hanging up the phone, I saw the tears in my mother's eyes and the determination in her eyes. At that moment, I realized that my mother had really put it down. I just hope my mother can be happy in the future, and I support what my mother does.

This is the story that happened to my parents. Since then, I have learned that love is mutual, not one side gives blindly, and the other side is indifferent. Only by caring for each other can we have a happy marriage and a happy family. In love and marriage, we must first learn to love ourselves, rather than compromise or even lose ourselves for the sake of each other. Do you think I'm right?

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