When we get married, you only get 10,000 bride price and let me buy a house, then I'd better marry someone else.

When we get married, your family only gets 10,000 bride price and let me buy a house, so I'd better marry someone else.

Marriage is really more than just a certificate for two people, it's a matter for two families. I didn't understand this sentence before, but now I do. When I was going to pull the marriage license with my boyfriend, a phone call from my mother made me know my mother-to-be's idea, which made me very angry.

My boyfriend and I have been in love for more than a year, and I feel that all aspects are quite suitable, so I want to get a license to get married. Because the two of us belong to the kind of late marriage in moments, and we don't bother to date more. The conditions of our two families are similar. I think it is easy for our two families to discuss the issue of money under such circumstances. But the truth is beyond my imagination, when discussing marriage together, my mother-in-law and my mother are very unhappy because of the bride price, and my mother-in-law has been bargaining. The common bride price in our side is 120000 to 150000. But his mother talked too much all the time, and finally agreed to the gift money of 100000 yuan at my mother's insistence.

The matter of betrothal gift consumed a lot of energy of the two families, and it was thought that the matter had been settled. My boyfriend and I also chose the date to get the license, during which time the two families continued to discuss the dowry and the marriage house after that. The end result is that the house is bought by their family, and my family is responsible for decorating and other things. My mother is not very satisfied with the result because she thinks that her mother-in-law is always planning how to marry me as a daughter-in-law at the lowest price. This feeling made my mother feel that her daughter had become a bargaining cabbage in the vegetable market, and my boyfriend and I were exhausted between our parents at that time. I hope they will stop clinging to it because of money.

Finally, when it was time to get the license, I got up early in the morning and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to wait in line. Because it was a good day, many people chose to register on that day, and we waited in line for more than an hour to arrive at us. When I was filling out the form, I received a phone call from my mother and I was so surprised that my pen almost fell off. Just now, my mother-in-law called my mother and said she didn't have that much money to buy a house for both of us, hoping that my family would pay for it. My mother called me quickly and told me not to register for marriage yet. After hearing this, I froze. I didn't understand what the expectant mother-in-law meant. After hearing this, my boyfriend dragged me to his mother and said to ask what was going on face to face.

When my soon-to-be mother-in-law saw me going with my boyfriend, she thought we had registered to get married. Not only did I say that I had no money to buy a house, but even the 100, 000 yuan bride price I had promised my mother had dropped to 10, 000 yuan. Still pretend to be difficult to tell me that there is no money at home, let me take it and don't dislike it. My boyfriend soothed the angry me and asked me to promise his mother first, and then I would discuss with them after I got married. I was so angry that I threw off my boyfriend's hand and scolded my mother-in-law: "if we get married, your family will only get 10,000 bride price and let my family buy a house, then I'd better marry someone else!" My mother-in-law's behavior was so infuriating that I began to change my face when I was the daughter-in-law of their family. It's not like I can't get married, so why do I have to post it to his family? I think I need to reconsider this marriage.

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