Talking to my boyfriend about getting married after dinner, my boyfriend came back from the check and my mom slapped me in the face and cried again.

Talking about marriage with my boyfriend, my boyfriend came back after dinner, and my mother slapped me in the face and cried again.

Maybe without being a mother, I will never know how much a mother attaches importance to her daughter's marriage. If her daughter chooses a marriage that her parents don't like, how sad it will be to see her children treated unfairly, and how disappointed she will be in her daughter. I am such a daughter, after that happened, I really heartache, I broke my mother's heart, I am also very sad and heartache.

I grew up in a divorced family. My father abandoned our mother and daughter a long time ago. It can be said that I did not feel my father's love or even remember what my father looked like. It was very difficult for my mother to raise me alone. My mother loved me very much. She often said that she would love me more and make up for my father's love. It can be said that I was my mother's only spiritual prop. Later, I had a boyfriend, and after we confirmed our relationship, I knew that he already had a family, but he was really kind to me, and I couldn't bear to give him up. He told me that she had no relationship with his wife at that time and divorced her soon.

At first I thought he was just perfunctory, so I held the mentality of waiting, and I never dared to mention it to my mother. Unexpectedly, my boyfriend got divorced and offered to marry me. When it came time to talk about marriage, we asked the parents of the two families to have dinner and meet each other. As a result, my boyfriend's mother expressed her dissatisfaction with me at the dinner table and compared me with my boyfriend's ex-wife about how I was inferior to her. My mother was sitting next to me. I saw that her face was very ugly, and I had a bad taste. Later, my boyfriend went to check out, and my mother was very angry when I saw that I was fawning over my boyfriend's mother. When my boyfriend checked out, my mother asked me in front of everyone if I had to marry my boyfriend. I hesitated for a moment, but I nodded when I saw my boyfriend and his mother. My mother slapped me angrily, and then cried herself, saying that I had let her down too.

This is the first time I have seen her cry since I grew up, and it was very difficult for me at that time. But what can I do? I have feelings with my boyfriend, and he is really kind to me. I don't mind my boyfriend's mother's attitude towards me. After all, it is my boyfriend, not my mother-in-law, who wants to spend the rest of my life with me, so I really don't want to leave my boyfriend when my mother asks me. I also understand my mother, she raised me so hard, and I am her only relative and hope, she saw her daughter for a man so spineless to please others, how disappointed and sad.

What am I supposed to do when things turn out like this? Everybody help me think of something.

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