Marriage is the grave of love? No, you didn't pick the right person.

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Marriage is the grave of love?

It's true.

Or are you not careful enough?

The beautiful Qixi Festival has just passed.

Are you still immersed in it?

In the vast sea of people

Meet someone you really like.

It's really rare.

That's why love is precious.

Friends who indulge in love

More or less have fantasized about getting married.

But is he really right for you now?

Can I love you all my life?

Before making a decision

There are a few things you need to know.

Find out why the other person chose you.

Ask them what they "re looking for

You don't have to ask the other person directly why they want to be with you, but you can ask in this way: why did you come on a blind date? What kind of partner are you looking for? Through this kind of question, you can know whether the other person is just fooling around.

They may be honest with each other and say that they are not looking for someone to marry, which is fine. But they may say that they are willing to settle down if they meet the right person, implying that you are not wasting your time.

They might be honest and tell you they "re not looking for anything serious-and that" s fine. But they might also say they are willing to settle for the right person, which gives you the indication you "re not wasting your time.

It's better to ask now than to find out later that the other person is dating several people at the same time.

Are they satisfied with their present life?

Are they content with life?

It seems too deep to ask this kind of question at the beginning of a relationship. The initial stage of love is supposed to be fun and carefree. But Stott thinks it's best to know if the other person is satisfied with his or her present life.

It sounds quite deep for the start of a relationship, when everything is supposed to be fun and carefree. But Stott said it "sa good idea to find out if someone is happy with where they are in their life.

Being satisfied with your life means that your mental state is suitable for getting to know others and starting a relationship with them. Although this is vulgar, you have to love yourself before you can love others.

If the people you meet are dissatisfied with their lives, it means they are not ready to welcome another person into their lives.

What are their plans for the future?

Do they have any major future plans?

No one wants to fall in love with someone and then know that that person plans to move to the other side of the world and doesn't know when he will be back.

Nobody wants to be in the position of falling for someone, then learning the plan to move half way across the world... Indefinitely.

Any major event in life, such as working abroad, traveling, etc., may affect your relationship. So it is more advantageous to know the other party's plan in advance.

Any major life-changing events, like moving to work abroad, or travelling, will likely impact your relationship. So it "s handy to know about someone" s plans early on.

How does the other person usually spend the weekend?

What is their average Sunday like?

The way you spend the weekend is very telling. Some people sleep for a long time on weekends, while others like to go out to play.

The way you spend your Sundays can be quite telling. Some people waste away the hours nursing a hangover, whereas others are more "get up and go" types.

"it seems like a casual question, but you know what kind of person the other person is," Stott said. " She suggested asking the question earlier. "it's usually either proactive or lazy."

How does the other party deal with the crisis?

How do they handle stressful situations?

From the way a person deals with a crisis, you can see whether you and this person can get along harmoniously. There is no right or wrong way to deal with the crisis.

The way someone deals with things that go wrong in their life can be a real indicator of how compatible you might be with them.And there isn "t a right or wrong way they might be.

If you encounter something difficult, you can observe the other person's reaction. Even if it's not a big deal, you can see how much the other person can help when something more difficult happens.

If they ignore or don't care about your troubles, it may mean that they are afraid of intimacy or can't communicate well.

Are the values of the other person similar to yours?

Do they have the same values as you?

Everyone has his own principles. For example, some people cannot tolerate taking drugs, while others are determined not to have children.

Although you don't usually discuss such an important topic at the beginning of a relationship, you should find out if the other person has values that are completely contrary to you.

It's no use deceiving yourself in the long run. The other party will not confess at the beginning, they think that one day they may change, but they will not change, put it off later became a problem. There are some questions of principle that should have been raised earlier.

What are each other's friends and family like?

What are their friends and family like?

People are not all the same as their family and friends, but on the whole, you can learn a lot from the people they associate with and their family background.

People aren "t always a mirror image of their friends and family, but in general, you can tell a lot about a person from who they choose to hang out with, and where they came from.

If you meet the other person's friends and think they are the worst people you've ever met, it's a red flag that you may have misjudged them. Maybe there is another side of the other person that you don't know?

You can also find out if you let the other person see your friend. When you are in a sweet period of love, wearing rose-colored glasses, it is easy to ignore the shortcomings of the other person that will bother you in the future. But your friend is not that easy to fool.

Although in the face of true love

Everything is not a problem.

But choose the right person for yourself.

It's everyone's right.

Cherish love at the same time

And don't get carried away by love.

Before making a promise

Prudence is the most important thing!

Everything is wonderful, there is a praise mall in the flower school.

There are flowers and love, a school of flowers