After the divorce, my ex-husband came to me every now and then. I offered to remarry. He smiled and said that I was confused.

After the divorce, my ex-husband came to me every now and then. I offered conditions for remarriage. He smiled and said that I was confused.

It has been five years since we knew each other and tied the knot. This period of time did not let me see him clearly, after these things happened, it made me really see him clearly. When we were in love at the beginning, after the washing of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce and vinegar tea, we gradually revealed our nature. Once vowed to be tolerant and always with each other, it no longer exists at this moment, and now it has become a problem for me.

Speaking of which, it was my own choice. I didn't listen to my parents and insisted on marrying him. My mother once said to me. He is not good enough, and his family condition is not good. For my future, he won't let me marry him. At that time, I was very sad and assured my mother that we really loved each other. As far as I know him, he was not the kind of person my mother said he was. Finally, seeing that I had made up my mind and could not bear to see me sad, my mother agreed to the marriage. For fear of being aggrieved, he bought me a house and made a down payment, because his family could not afford to buy a house at all.

When we were first married for a year, we were still in love. At the same time, there is also a little more noise. But I think that there is no husband and wife who are not noisy. Isn't life like this? The quarrel is over. It will be over soon. But in the back. The number of quarrels is also increasing and getting worse. Now he quit his job, went out for a drink with his bad friends, and stopped looking for a job. After drinking, he slept on the sofa, motionless. Sleep until 02:00 in the afternoon and go out for a drink after supper. And threatened me to give him money. If you don't pay me, you will beat me and squander the dowry I married. Now I not only have to bear the expenses of my family, but also pay off the mortgage, which is very hard.

After a long time, I don't want to put up with it any longer. I can only blame myself for being so stupid that I didn't see the nature of his skills before marriage. I'm going to divorce him anyway. After he woke up that day, I asked him for a divorce. Unexpectedly, he agreed quickly. After the divorce formalities were completed, I felt relieved. Since my family bought the house, I took it when I got divorced.

But he did not move out of my house, but often came back to live, did not often go out to drink, and found a new job. I thought the divorce made him realize the importance of family. Seeing that he intends to change, life can still go on. After he drank less, our relationship gradually changed for the better. I think he was reluctant to leave me. So I'm going to remarry him.

That night, I cooked a whole table of food, and during the meal, I told him that there must be a change if I wanted to remarry. Unexpectedly, he smiled and said that I was dreaming, that I had wasted his time, and that living here was compensation for his mental damage. I'm confused. It was only then that I finally realized that it was too difficult to change this kind of person. I would like to find a way to get him to move out tomorrow no matter what. I can't call the police tomorrow and start my new life.

It should be one of everyone's pursuits to know each other for life with those who love each other, holding one person's hand, spending spring, summer, autumn and winter together, until the white head. But it is true that beautiful love makes people yearn for, but we must also keep our eyes open, because if you are not careful, you may choose the wrong person and delay your life.

(from readers' contribution, the picture of this article comes from the Internet)