Divorced more than ten years ago, my husband invited me to my daughter's wedding. I froze when I saw my son-in-law-to-be.

After more than ten years of divorce, my ex-husband invited me to my daughter's wedding. I froze when I saw my soon-to-be son-in-law.

My ex-husband, who has been divorced for 15 years, called to tell me that my daughter was getting married, but he wanted me to stop it. When I got the call, I was very confused and didn't understand why. At the same time, I couldn't help thinking what kind of person my daughter chose to be her husband. I was dumbfounded when I saw my soon-to-be son-in-law.

My marriage to my ex-husband began with romance and ended with embarrassment. He and I fell in love freely at that time, and since we started dating, the parents of both sides have always disagreed, saying that the two of us are not suitable at all. At that time, when we were passionately in love, we turned a deaf ear to their advice and got married without hesitation despite their opposition. At the beginning of those days, we were still sweet, and we lived a very smooth life. But after a little longer, we found a lot of shortcomings of each other, and many of them are unacceptable to us. Fortunately, I had a daughter soon. All of a sudden, our focus shifted to our daughter.

I thought I could spend my whole life with him, but I couldn't stand it when my daughter was seven years old. His character becomes more and more fussy, and we quarrel almost every day. Then I chose to divorce him and went back to my mother's house alone. I still remember that the day I left, my daughter had been begging herself not to leave, and her eyes were swollen with tears. I had no choice but to coax her to sleep and leave quietly, afraid that I would see her eyes and hear her voice and be reluctant to leave again. Later, I had a family of my own, thinking that my ex-husband would take good care of my daughter without taking care of her. I didn't know how wrong I was and how sorry I was to her until now.

My ex-husband was in a hurry on the phone and hoped that I could get there as soon as possible to stop my daughter from getting married. When I was on the road, I kept thinking that my daughter was not looking for some young talent, but she was a young man similar to herself. why should she stop it? When I arrived, I was surprised to see my son-in-law-to-be. He was much older than his daughter, and the two were not well matched in appearance. I was so puzzled that I didn't understand why my daughter was with him. My daughter was a little surprised when she saw me coming, but then she greeted me lightly and politely to sit down and drink tea, which made me particularly uncomfortable.

My daughter told me that I chose him because he was considerate and would take care of people. Be kind to her, and often spoil her little temper. In the course of chatting, I learned that my ex-husband gave his daughter to his mother to take care of him out of complaining about me, and the daughter lacked the love of her parents since childhood, so when she met this man who knew how to take care of people, she couldn't help falling in love with him. In the final analysis, it is the negligence of my ex-husband and me that led to today's situation, and I feel very guilty to see my daughter draw a polite line with me. If I had come back to see her, I would not have let her place her feelings on a man so much older than her.

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