When I divorced, my wife left me the dowry house. I met her one year later and realized that I was stupid.

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During the divorce, my wife left me her dowry house, and I didn't know I was stupid until I met again a year later.

Now I have learned how vengeful a woman is. However, all this is my own choice, so I just want to pass the buck. Besides, I am no longer qualified to complain and blame her. After all, she didn't force me to do it.

Compared with my family's difficult family circumstances, my ex-wife's home is not bad, although it is not a very rich family, but at least there is still a well-off level. We met in the middle of traveling at that time, and when we got along with each other, we felt good, and we reached the point of talking about marriage. When she insisted on marrying me, she quarreled with her family, and then we went to a lot of trouble to convince her parents. If you want to say that the parents-in-law are still good people, perhaps the most important thing is to feel sorry for their daughters. Seeing that my family is really not well-off, they helped us to make a down payment on the house. In this way, I was surprised and moved that we were able to live in a new house when we got married.

But the situation after marriage made her have some opinions, because my mother lives in the country, there is an unmarried brother below, my mother always asks me for money to support the family, I am also a dutiful son, obedient to her. As a result, I basically used up all my money, and my ex-wife was responsible for most of the mortgage and expenses at home. Over time, she complained and quarreled with me all day. I don't think she is reasonable at all. My family is not in good condition. It's not that she didn't know in advance that she had to share hardships with me when she married into my family. I didn't spend my money on others, but on my mother and brother. What's wrong with that? But she couldn't accept it, we negotiated to no avail, and finally got divorced.

When discussing the details of the divorce, my ex-wife unexpectedly said that the house could be left to me. Her mother's family is here, and she doesn't need to buy a house and move back home, but I need a place to stay, and I can pick up my mother from my hometown to live with me. As soon as I heard it, it was the same truth, and my mind was moved at that time. But at the same time, she also said that she still insisted on paying the money, in addition to the original down payment, but also to get a compensation fee of 100,000 yuan, because she repaid part of the mortgage after her marriage. After careful consideration, I saw that she didn't take advantage, so I agreed. At that time, I borrowed some money from someone else and gave it to my ex-wife. After she left home, I suddenly found that now I have to repay my mortgage every month, I have to repay other people's money, and the whole family depends on me to support me. Life is miserable. I'm too tired to live.

We have been divorced for a year now. When we met her in the street a few days ago, she was driving a nice car and parked not far from me. After getting off, she was shining brightly in the sun with her famous watch on her hand and necklace around her neck. Looking at the chic appearance of my ex-wife, I repented. If I hadn't divorced her so arbitrarily, I might have been better off now. Later, when I thought about it, I was very angry and thought that maybe my ex-wife left the house to me on purpose. She knew that there was a lot of pressure to repay the mortgage, so she came to mess with me in order to see me in a mess. Am I too stupid? how abhorrent do you think she is?