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Laugh and cry

Wang Feng

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Some people say that the more a person experiences, the milder he will be.

In the past, you had too many expectations for life; then you gradually realized that if you don't belong to you, you don't have to force it; you have to give up, you can afford it, and you won't embarrass yourself.

Austrian psychologist Adler said: "the courage to deal with all kinds of problems in life can explain how one defines the meaning of life." Each of us has a sense of inferiority in varying degrees because we all want to make ourselves better and live a better life. "

We play a variety of roles in life, such as gentle and virtuous wives, breadwinners, rebellious children, hard-working mothers, hard-working staff, hard-working students, and so on.

But in the final analysis, everyone is unique, and we are just "myself".

Everyone longs, crying can be comforted, sick can be loved, tired can be snuggled up, and far away can be missed.

But who can understand how much pressure you bear behind you trying to overexert yourself; who knows how much grievance you put in your heart behind your bright smile; if you don't let go of yourself, life will lose its color.

When you can't help it, you will think that if you bear it again, you may be able to pass; when you want to shed tears, you will silently wipe the tears from the corners of your eyes from others; when you can't bear them, you will let yourself hold on, just because no one can really understand your emotions. just because you don't want outsiders to see your fragility and fear.

The longer you walk on the road of life, the more you understand that the person who can accompany you the longest in the world is still yourself.

02

There are two main forms of human life:

One is to show it to others; the other is to show it to yourself.

If you live just to show others, you must be very tired, but most people are unwilling to admit this fact. Only when you live for yourself and live up to yourself can you live more and more pure, and even if you work hard, you are willing to give.

Liao Zhi, a dance teacher who once attended the "Dance Forest Conference", lost her legs in the May 12 earthquake, but she chose to survive the moment she rubbed shoulder to shoulder with death.

She said she had no husband and daughter, but she still had a father: he needed her.

Later, she stepped onto the dazzling stage, but only left a sentence: thank you for the beauty of life.

At that moment, everyone burst into tears.

See, there will always be someone in this world who is more painful than you, and it's really not that hard to face life with a smile.

Nothing is impossible to carry.

Many things, as long as you do, don't think too much, just have a clear conscience, love yourself before you have the ability to love others.

One day, you will clearly understand: know yourself, is the best relief; love yourself, is the most stable to rely on.

Everything is wonderful, there is a praise mall in the flower school.

There are flowers and love, a school of flowers