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My mother-in-law is in poor health. I give her two thousand five a month. I heard her chatting with her neighbors. I won't give it.

Published: 2024-09-16 Author: mysheen
Last Updated: 2024/09/16, (from readers, pictures of this article are from the Internet) my mother-in-law is not in good health. I give her 25 thousand a month. I heard her chatting with her neighbors. In the past, I always thought that filial piety and caring for the family were virtues.

(From readers 'contributions, pictures in this article come from the Internet)

My mother-in-law is in poor health. I give 2,500 a month. I hear her chatting with my neighbors. I don't give it anymore.

In the past, I always thought that filial piety and family are virtues, so because of this view, I finally married a wife who came from a poor family but was quite filial to her mother. After we got married, she was polite and considerate to my family, but compared with my parents, she paid more attention to her native family. Since I also knew her family and specific circumstances, I had always adopted a tolerant attitude towards her and even often helped her. However, I finally realized how wrong my thoughts and practices were.

My wife's family was ordinary, and because her father-in-law died early, she and my brother-in-law were raised by her mother-in-law. She was a woman, and she didn't have a high-end career or a good income. Therefore, she spent all her strength to raise a pair of children. Neither of them went to college. My wife gave up because of family problems, while my brother-in-law had no intention of studying because of poor grades. Both of them entered society before and after graduation from high school.

At that time, my wife spent all her thoughts on earning money to support her family. However, my brother-in-law fell in love and married early in his early twenties. By the time I married my wife, he was already dragging his family with him at a young age, a few years earlier than us. Her responsibility as the eldest daughter of the family did not end just because she married me. After our marriage, my wife often cried to me, saying that her mother was in poor health and her income was not high. Just taking medicine and injections was expensive. She was a child and could not ignore her mother. After listening to her words, I sympathized with her, so I could only turn a blind eye to her behavior of subsidizing her family from time to time. In addition, I took the initiative to give my mother-in-law 2,500 yuan a month as her living expenses.

Two days ago, I learned from my wife that my mother-in-law was ill again. She asked me for money. After giving it to me at that time, I thought about it. As a son-in-law, I still had to visit him personally to make sense. Therefore, I carried the fruits and nutrients specially bought. Who knew that when he was about to knock on the door, he heard his mother-in-law chatting with his neighbors and chatting with others. There was no sign of illness at all. Not only that, but she was praising me to her neighbors, saying that I was generous and uncalculative, and that her daughter was not wrong about people. Finally, he sighed and said that the money I gave was not enough for my brother-in-law to pay the mortgage. Thanks to my wife's subsidy from time to time, he could support his family of three.

I was angry that my mother-in-law's illness was all a lie, and that my wife's concealment of me, my mother-in-law's indiscretion, and their indulgence and coddling of my brother-in-law were beyond me. I picked up my things and turned away. I decided that from now on, I would no longer give my mother-in-law money. It turned out that everything was for my lazy, idle brother-in-law. Did everyone say that I was stupid and angry?

 
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