Once a man finds an excuse for himself, he will soon find another hundred excuses for himself.

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Source: brain craftsmanship (may north)

A few miles around

Accident

Xue Zhiqian

00:00/04:23

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A few days ago, I asked my friends to have dinner together. I finished my work ahead of schedule. When I got to the door of the restaurant, my friend called and said that I was stuck in traffic. It was estimated that I would be a little late.

After listening to this, I joked: "it's too late to go out late. Take the traffic jam as an excuse for two stops. Don't think I don't know, hurry up."

The friend pretended to be silly and smiled and hung up the phone.

Excuses are really useful sometimes.

Last month, the personnel manager of our company fired an employee. For this matter, I am actually quite surprised, the company, both the management system and the working atmosphere are actually very relaxed, rarely take the initiative to fire a person seriously.

The personnel manager explained, "the work assigned to him has always been handed in at the end, which not only drags on the whole team, but also has a lot of reasons and excuses to shirk their responsibilities. It is obvious that there is something wrong with the work attitude.

The interview at this meeting, because of his saying 'get up late', kept the client waiting for almost an hour, delayed the progress of the meeting, made random remarks and made promises at will, which had a serious impact on the credibility of the company. "

Before leaving, the laid-off employees were still complaining:

"A lot of work is done for the first time. I have no experience at all, and no one takes me. I just want to learn first. Who knows the company really wants me to take responsibility."

It's OK to have no experience, and it's OK to need someone to mention it, but it's not an excuse for not getting the job done and ignoring work discipline. The company can grow with you, but this is just a health product, not a specific medicine.

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Carnegie said in the weakness of Human Nature that for those immature people, they can always find excuses to cover up some of their own shortcomings or misfortune.

In life, there will always be such a group of people who attribute their poor and destitute reasons to others and always find various excuses for failure.

Colleague Siqing said that his ex-boyfriend is such a person.

The two came to Shenzhen as soon as they graduated. Siqing quickly found the job she wanted, but her boyfriend was not very smooth and was turned down for interviews with several companies.

Every time I fail, I find a lot of reasons, either because the company discriminates against him as an outsider, or because he feels that others have gone through the back door.

Later, not long after work, my boyfriend was fired, and even Siqing herself felt that his boyfriend was too careless at work. He went fishing for three days and hung his net for two days. He didn't go to the typhoon and asked for leave under the heavy rain.

But the boyfriend did not think so, he felt that the leader had a problem with him and could not recognize his "uncut jade". No, no, no.

Once a man finds a wrong excuse for himself, he will soon find another hundred excuses for himself.

Reunion with classmates, others rely on their own efforts to work out a career, he insisted that it is because the other party has a good father, he does not have.

He said that the failure of starting a business was a problem of the social environment, and it was not his fault.

In the face of such a boyfriend, Siqing couldn't stand it and finally chose to break up.

The differences between people are actually very simple:

You are lying in bed, he is exercising, so he is healthier than you

You are completing today's plan, and he is planning tomorrow's plan, so he has more opportunities than you.

You're making excuses, he's solving problems, so he's more successful than you.

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Backstage fan @ Zhao Yi read the message saying:

The boyfriend obviously doesn't love himself, but he always makes excuses, and he knows that he doesn't love him, but he still can't help making excuses for him.

The girl said that she had not had any contact with her boyfriend for 3 days. She called her boyfriend before, and her boyfriend always said that he had a lot of things to deal with in the early days of his business, which was for the future of both of them.

The girl said helplessly, "are you so busy that you don't even have time to make a phone call?" Can I at least say a word on Wechat? "

The girl knows that he is not busy, it's just an excuse.

But she is also reluctant to break up, there are always two little people in the fight, one said: "break up, he just doesn't love you." The other said, "he was so busy that he forgot." he must have something very important to do.

Silly girl, even the president will have time to fall in love, not to mention the ordinary him? And even the president will not be too busy to make a phone call.

In the final analysis, "busy" is just an excuse. He's not really busy, he's just not free for you.

One of the big reasons why we can't live well now is that most of the time we subconsciously make excuses in our work, love and life.

Don't make excuses for your tiredness and laziness, you can only get worse and worse if you go on like this.

It is easier to find excuses than solutions; it is easier to flinch than to move forward, but you have to believe that success and happiness will always favor those who work hard, not those who only know how to make excuses.

Everything is wonderful, there is a praise mall in the flower school.

There are flowers and love, a school of flowers