Don't you take it for granted that my brother has an accident and his sister-in-law is like his mother?

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My brother has an accident now, and his sister-in-law is like his mother. Don't you take it for granted to take care of their children?

Before I got married, I always thought that marriage was just a matter between two people. however, after I got married, I knew that this was not the case and that the whole family would affect my personal life. More importantly, no matter how hard I try to do it, my mother-in-law does not understand my hard work and efforts, which makes me miserable.

In fact, when I first got married, I couldn't accept the ideas of my mother-in-law. They thought that when I married into this family, I was a member of their family, and I had the responsibility and obligation to bear everything in this family. Although I am quite dissatisfied with this, because of my husband's face, I still choose to bear it silently. So, as the elder sister-in-law of the family, I took on all the housework, not only to go to work normally, but also to buy food, cook, wash clothes and sweep the floor. I've been very busy all day. Although I have secretly complained to my husband about my dissatisfaction, my husband's attitude is the same as that of his family, taking it for granted what I have done for my family. Seeing my husband's attitude, I was full of grievances and complaints, thinking to myself that if it were not for my young child, I would definitely divorce him and leave this family full of indifference as soon as possible.

However, there was a lot of rain in the house, and when I was overwhelmed, my brother-in-law was suddenly involved in a car accident on his way to work. After all-out rescue by the hospital, although he saved his life, his brother-in-law collapsed on the sickbed and became an unconscious vegetable. Seeing that his brother-in-law had no hope of recovery, his sister-in-law applied to the court for divorce. At the beginning, the mother-in-law tried every means to retain the marriage, which existed in name only, and even threatened his brother-in-law's two children in order to retain his sister-in-law. However, the sister-in-law has made up her mind to divorce, and at her insistence, the court finally decided to divorce.

Because the brother-in-law no longer has the ability to raise, so, after the divorce, the sister-in-law plans to take away their two children. However, the mother-in-law is a different idea. they think that the two children are the blood of their brother-in-law and should never be taken away by their sister-in-law. However, if you want to keep these two children, someone must take care of their daily life. However, except for me and my mother-in-law, all the other women in the family are men, and my mother-in-law is already very old and in poor physical condition, so the whole family wants to put the blame on me.

After seeing this situation, I refused directly, because I also had my own reasons. During the day, I not only had to work to earn money, but also to take care of the lives of the whole family. I had to go to the hospital to wait on my brother-in-law. If I were asked to take care of two ignorant children, I would be exhausted to death. However, after listening to my refusal, my mother-in-law immediately showed dissatisfaction, and my husband even accused me of saying, "my brother has an accident now and his sister-in-law is like his mother. Isn't it right for you to take care of their children?" After listening to my husband's speech, my heart is full of grievances, you keep on regarding me as a family, always let me pay for this family, but never take into account my hard work. Friends, do you think what the mother-in-law is doing is right?