My son wanted to buy a suite, and my mother wrote a letter rejecting the fryer.

"parents think about their children, just as the road is as long as the road. Children think about their parents only as long as chopsticks." On hearing this, there is a sense of "selfishness" in children. Children always think that they are parents when they need help, rather than how much pressure their parents have to bear to solve the problem.

Recently, the editor saw a picture in moments, in which there was a letter. The child and mother in the letter had this taste. The child in the letter wants his parents to help him buy a suite, but in his mother's view, the house is like his own future, need to fight for, the child should be independent.

(the picture is from Visual China)

Mother wrote a letter by hand: you have to fly by yourself after all!

Dear son,

There are some words I don't know how to say, so I choose to tell you my mother's heart in the most primitive way.

From your birth to the present, you are 26 years old, these 26 years, my mother has been very happy. Your arrival has brought infinite happiness to my mother's life. But recently, there seem to be some problems between us.

You said that everyone around you had bought a house, and you said that you needed an apartment to find a girlfriend behind you. You said that the house price has been rising all the time, and there would be no loss before the Asian Games, so you told your mother that you wanted to buy an apartment in Xiaoshan City, Hangzhou.

However, in my opinion, the 26-year-old you need to bear some things alone, not like you when you were a child, as long as you cry, say, you can get what you want. In my opinion, you are still in our arms, like a child.

Why does mom refuse you? mom just wants you to understand: you have to fly by yourself after all, and your father and I are just your strong backing, not the one in front of you forever.

Mom hopes that you can get what you want through your own efforts. Whether it's a house or a dream, you want to go to the unknown future alone after all.

Your mother.

July 25, 2018

There are a few words in the letter that make people think.

"you said that everyone around you had bought a house, and you said you needed an apartment to find a girlfriend behind you. You said that the house price has been rising all the time, and you certainly won't lose money before the Asian Games, so you tell your mother that you want to buy an apartment in Xiaoshan City."

"Why does your mother refuse you? mother just wants you to understand that you want to fly by yourself after all, and your father and I are just your strong backing, not the one in front of you forever."

In the letter, the child wants his parents to buy him an apartment, but in his mother's view, the house is like his own future and needs to be fought for by himself. Children should be independent instead of turning to their parents for help.

In fact, there is a lot of this kind of concept in our life. However, children need help, and some parents will choose to lend a helping hand as soon as they can.

(the picture is from Visual China)

Many netizens saw this letter and discussed it one after another. Some netizens think that now the post-90s generation is under great pressure, and parents should help set it off.

The post-lufthansa:80 generation is different from the post-90s generation. Many people born in the 1970s have many houses, either because they are really capable, or because they are born early, and they buy early and dare to buy them, that's all. It is certainly more difficult for the post-90s generation to buy a house than the post-80s generation before. There is no dispute about this.

@ DeFly-7: waiting to become an old leftover man.

Wearing slippers to ride Aries: this mother's character is really beautiful. But at least help the child, otherwise he will have to work very hard.

Some netizens think that Chinese parents should change their ideas, everyone has their own life, and it is all right to raise their children.

@ Wu Qinge: Chinese parents should take a good look at this letter. Why do they devote all their 20-30 years of youth to buying a house to repay the loan, and finally have to take their grandchildren? they all have their own lives and raise their children. Don't they have their own hands and feet? Then their own children repeat the cycle for their grandchildren, generation after generation, asking for trouble.

There are many netizens to support the mother's approach, to let children learn to rely on themselves, life under pressure can be more motivated.

@ Particular_dance: the comments all say to help, that is to stand on their own point of view. If you had children of your own, wouldn't you agree with the mother? From my mother's point of view, I agree. Although I gave birth to you, but life still has to go on its own, I also have my own life, for you 20 years, but also need you to walk independently.

Happy tourists: many post-80s generation around me buy a house, buy a car, get married and have children in Hangzhou on their own. There is no old age to eat, nor can I bear to eat it. On the contrary, life under stress is more motivated and happier.

@ Why not return something borrowed: in fact, Xiaoshan's current prices are more than 10,000 or 20,000, and tiptoe efforts will not be a big problem.

@ Hello, hello 99: my husband and I are both post-80s. No one in my family took care of the children. I resigned to take care of the children. Neither of us was the only child, so our parents couldn't count on us. We just bought the house ourselves. At that time, the house price at Daguan was not high. We worked for several years and saved the down payment, so we bought a small house. Later, when the house price was high, we sold the house and bought a bigger house in the West Lake District. At that time, I thought that I could buy a house by jumping feet. I must buy it.

@ you can't see my comment: from an outsider's point of view, I support my parents' approach.

Source | Hangzhou Daily (hangzhoudaily) Comprehensive Xiao ran online Beigan Lingfeng (xs163-net)

It is true that life under stress is more motivated.

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