My sister's pregnant mother-in-law always buys rotten fruit. She was so angry that she ran back to her mother's house. She woke up after I spoke.

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When my sister was pregnant, my mother-in-law always bought rotten fruit. She was so angry that she ran back to her mother's house. She woke up after I spoke.

The problem of getting along with mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has always been a difficult problem in every family. It is really not easy to get along with each other, and we need more understanding and communication. Recently, several of my pregnant sisters have also encountered this problem. She ran home crying and said that her mother-in-law always bought her rotten fruit, regardless of the fact that she was still pregnant.

My mother died young, and my father raised me and my sister alone. Dad spends all his time working and taking care of both of us, but after all, he is still a big man, so it is inevitable that he will not take care of it. I was several years older than my sister, so I acted as a mother and took care of her life. But after all, I am not a real mother, but a sister, so it is inevitable that I dote on her without principles. Also for this reason, let her character a little arrogant.

Later, when she married someone, her brother-in-law was an honest man, and her mother-in-law was also a gentle person who was easy to get along with. I was secretly relieved to see such conditions. Although the other party's family conditions are not very good, food and clothing is not a problem. The two people are gentle and can tolerate the little temper of their younger sister. Unexpectedly, my sister suddenly came back and said that her mother-in-law was unkind to her and mistreated her. I asked her what was going on. My sister told me that since I was pregnant, I have become very fond of eating all kinds of fruits. At the beginning, my mother-in-law bought good fruit for her, but when I bought it more times, I found that the fruit became less and less fresh. She must have spent too much money, so I bought this kind of fruit to get rid of her.

It dawned on me after listening to my sister's words. After patiently listening to my sister's words, I asked her and my husband if they had given their mother-in-law living expenses. My sister was stupefied when she heard what I said, and she obviously didn't think about the question of giving living expenses. Hesitate to say that I do not have this concept, should give my mother-in-law living expenses, and bowed his head sheepishly. I told her that when we got married, our family didn't spend a penny from your mother-in-law and almost spent all her savings. Now she has no income except to sell some vegetables. Coupled with the fact that you have been married for so long, the family has to eat and take care of your food, clothing, housing and transportation. The cost of living is all on her, so she won't have any money. But she certainly won't reach out and ask you for money. And from the beginning of pregnancy, my sister has been taking good care of her, not letting her do anything, for fear that she will be tired.

After listening to my words, my sister felt a little ashamed, said she knew she was wrong, and went back by herself later. For a long time, my sister took her mother-in-law's efforts for granted and did not see her hard work. The younger sister said that she would take the initiative to give her mother-in-law some living expenses every month, and the place where the family could help her mother-in-law would not just watch her mother-in-law busy. I won't misunderstand her anymore.