My mother left me and divorced my father. My father dragged me into marriage for 18 years. When my father gave me a card, I was confused.

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My mother left me and divorced my father, my father dragged me for 18 years, and my father gave me a card when I got married.

In fact, in a person's life, the family environment plays a vital role in us. If we live in a happy and harmonious family from an early age, we will cultivate a sound personality. On the contrary, if you live in a family full of contradictions from an early age, it will lead to a corresponding lack of personality. Since I was a child, I have lived in a family full of contradictions, which has caused me to bear heavy mental pressure and do not know where to go.

I remember that when I was very young, the atmosphere at home was not very harmonious. My parents often quarreled over some trivial things, and sometimes even used force to solve them. Whenever my parents quarreled, I always hid in the corner, silently watching everything in front of me, but my heart was full of fear and panic. Therefore, in my childhood memory, there is hardly a little bit of sweetness and happiness, completely spent in a smoke-filled family environment. When I was in kindergarten, my mother couldn't stand this noisy day any longer, so she asked my father for divorce. After her parents divorced, my mother married someone else to find her own happy life. However, from then on, the seeds of resentment were planted in my young heart, thinking that my mother was so heartless that she left me alone.

After my parents divorced, my father never remarried, but took me to live alone. As a result of the lack of maternal care from an early age, it deepened my resentment against my mother. And secretly vowed that he would never want to see her again in his life. Time flies, 18 years have passed in the twinkling of an eye, I have reached the age to talk about marriage, because I was affected by the family environment from an early age, so I was full of fear of marriage. Under the repeated urging of my father, I found a boyfriend. A year later, just as I was preparing to get married, my father called me aside and handed me a bank card with a dignified face and said, this is the dowry my mother has saved for me.

After listening to my father's speech, I was immediately confused, because I had never contacted my mother all these years, how could she save money for me? However, under my questioning, my father finally told the truth. It turned out that over the years, my mother had not forgotten me. She often called her father to ask about me and mailed a lot of clothes and food. However, because my father still held a grudge in his heart, he hid these things from me. However, with the passage of time, the resentment in my father's heart gradually diminished. After some reflection, he finally told me what had happened. And said that I have grown up now, should respect my personal feelings and choices.

After listening to this, I was at a loss in my heart. I didn't know what to do.