The people who will criticize you are your dignitaries.

Arrogant when young, in the face of criticism from others is often regarded as provocative, is to find fault, is vexatious, rarely quietly examine their own mistakes.

In retrospect, who has criticized himself the most since childhood? It's our parents. Which parents don't want their children to be successful?

Who criticized you the most at school? He's our teacher. Which teacher doesn't want his students to be successful in the future?

Similarly, those who criticize you today are also for your own good and think that you are still a talented person!

Everyone likes to hear affirmation and praise, so there is the old motto that "good advice goes against the ear and good deeds".

Those who are responsible to you will criticize you; those who think you are "capable" will criticize you; those who really treat you will criticize you; those who are willing to worry about labor teaching you to help you make progress will criticize you.

Good medicine tastes bitter. These days, it is not easy to really hear others say something from the heart to you and criticize you for your growth and perfection.

So, once someone criticizes you, you must cherish it.

In the face of criticism, we should be happy, but why do some people resist criticism?

There are no more than the following two points:

First, I feel that I have done exactly the right thing.

In fact, there is no perfect person, even if it is a small thing, you do it perfectly, but it can not be the most perfect.

We must understand that there is no best, only better; moreover, good ideas are often hidden in opposition.

Therefore, we should adopt a tolerant attitude in the face of criticism, and even if we have done a good job, we should listen to the opinions of many parties.

Second, it is for fear of losing face.

Some people think that being criticized is a disgrace and a damage to self-esteem. In fact, whether or not to accept criticism from others has nothing to do with your own self-esteem.

If you really want to be strong, really want self-esteem, then receive voices from many parties, you can not only understand and analyze things from other angles, but also broaden your knowledge and enhance your judgment!

It is shameful to turn a small mistake into a big one if you do not correct it. The people who criticize you are all people who follow you. If you rush to defend yourself as soon as you hear someone speak ill of yourself, you can't do anything.

When you hear criticism, you can do two things:

First, try your best to do what you should do, to prove that you are right, then no matter what others say, it doesn't matter. If things are really not done well, it is useless to spend 10 times as much time and effort to defend yourself.

The second is to talk to your critics and listen to your opinions. Maybe you will know where you are wrong. There is no need to be discouraged by criticism, the key is to face it squarely, this is to believe in yourself, but also to trust others.

Being criticized is actually a sign of being cared for, which shows that you are still very popular and that there are so many people who care about you when something goes wrong. At this point, you can say "thank you" to your critics.

The person who can point out your shortcomings bluntly is your dignitaries. The person who flatters you all day long and often blows you up is often the one who is really watching your jokes.

Criticism and opinions are a kind of "good advice against the ear". In fact, it is not easy to criticize a person to criticize a thing. Such people are our mentors and friends in life.

Criticism is sincere love.

Criticism is a valuable support.

Criticism is a noble reward

Criticism is a precious gift

Thanks to everyone who has criticized me in the past or in the future.

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