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Despite the opposition, I found out that I was pregnant one year after marrying my second husband, and I firmly chose to divorce.

Published: 2024-09-19 Author: mysheen
Last Updated: 2024/09/19, (from readers, pictures of this article are from the Internet) despite opposition to marrying a second husband, I found out to be pregnant a year later, I firmly chose divorce and pregnancy for a couple, it is a happy event for the whole family, but to me.

(from readers' contribution, the picture of this article comes from the Internet)

Despite opposition to marrying a second husband, I found out to be pregnant one year later, and I firmly chose to divorce.

Pregnancy is a happy event for a couple, but when it comes to me, it has become the source of divorce between me and my husband. What else can I say?

Although my second husband is two years older than me, I don't think it's a big deal. Because my view of love is very casual, I think it is the most important for two people to be together, and nothing else has anything to do with it. However, other people do not think so, my parents and friends feel that this man is not worth trusting for life. They say the man has been divorced, indicating that there is at least a difficult part of his personality. Not only that, he also has a child, which means that as soon as I get married, I will be a stepmother, and it will be difficult for my stepmother. What should I do if I have a child?

But I was a little girl in love at that time, and I didn't care about these problems at all. What's more, he is very gentle and considerate to me, and the old man knows what girls need most. Even during my period, he remembered that he was obedient to me and his love was very sweet. I think such a person who cares about me, will not happen what they say, and firmly married him. My parents and friends are disappointed, but I don't regret it.

Married life was sweet at the beginning, and he treated me as if I were in love. About his son, our relationship is also quite good, I am very concerned about his son's life, daily life, study and so on, he also respects me very much. But I still want to have a child of my own. I have mentioned having children many times in private, and although he is very obedient to me, he is very determined in this matter and seems to have no intention of negotiation. So I secretly stopped taking medicine and wanted to have a child.

As a result, I was satisfied with the result, and soon after I stopped taking the drug, I successfully conceived the baby. When I saw the diagnosis of the hospital, I felt as if I had the whole world. However, when he heard the news, he went black for a moment. He wants me to get rid of the baby! He said coldly, "We can't have this child. I love you and already have a child. I can't share the love. The palms and backs of the hands are full of flesh." The child is so old, knowing that you have a brother and sister, will have the feeling of being abandoned, which is not good for his healthy growth. And the two of us are already very happy, there is no need to raise another child. " What he said chilled my heart. What logic is it when he says he loves me but doesn't want our children? I want to divorce him, but what about the baby in my stomach? Do I want him to live a life without fatherly love?

 
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