My brother-in-law got married and I filed for divorce after the 10,000 bride showed up.

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My brother-in-law got married and I paid 10,000 yuan. After the bride showed up, I filed for divorce.

If it were not for blood relationship, I don't know why my wife would use the hard-earned money I earned home again and again to fill the bottomless pit of my brother-in-law.

I am post-80s, our generation is the most strict generation of family planning, the basic family has only one child, the wife is a few years younger than me, the family can do something at that time, the mother-in-law risked losing her job and gave birth to a brother-in-law. My brother-in-law is fully 16 years younger than his wife. When we fell in love, my brother-in-law was a kid in the third grade of primary school! He is the only male in the whole family, and it is conceivable that he has been accustomed to being a typical uneducated and ignorant brother. As an adult, he barely graduated from college, and his family found a job as a civil servant, which was regarded as settling down.

However, my brother-in-law who has a job does not know how to cherish it and seek knowledge and enterprising spirit. Because she does not have enough diplomas, she has missed several opportunities to become a regular worker. I suggested that he should continue his studies and get another degree. His brother-in-law turned a deaf ear and his off-work time was spent either sleeping in or playing games. My wife plays almost the role of a mother in her brother-in-law. She dotes on my brother-in-law as much as my parents-in-law, and even buys a whole set of computer equipment at a high price for her brother to play games, and buys him game money more than once. For these reasons, we have a lot of disputes, after the matter, the wife will be soft, assured me that there will not be a next time, but every time is not the last time.

Finally, my brother-in-law is going to get married. I fully think that after starting a family, my brother-in-law will be more sensible. At the wedding, the bride is very beautiful, the whole body of diamond jewelry is a complete set, and valuable. When the toast came to me, my brother and wife were full of gratitude to me. I was surprised where such enthusiasm came from. In my brother's wife's repeated thanks, I learned that this set of diamond jewelry was bought by my wife in my name as a wedding gift for her!

It is not easy for us to gain a firm foothold in this elite city. I earned every penny with my time and energy. I want to use my own efforts to create a better material living environment for our family. But over the years, due to my wife's practice, my efforts have not achieved much success! When my brother-in-law got married, I was not stingy. I gave ten thousand yuan in cash directly as a glorious gift. As a brother-in-law, in the face of the money my wife has spent overtly and secretly for my brother-in-law for so many years, I will not pursue it. It is not my stinginess as a brother-in-law, but I oppose this kind of irresponsible doting to the growth of my brother-in-law!

Awkwardly, as a brother-in-law, if I talk too much, I will only be accused of being stingy, and no one will understand my good intentions. No one can help him for a lifetime. Isn't it a long-term solution to help him learn personal growth? Alas, I am really haggard in the face of all this! After being powerless, the emotion that has been accumulated for a long time finally broke out! After the wedding, I filed for divorce! In this way, I can't bear the burden of working alone and supporting several large families.