Husband, get a divorce. I can't fulfill your family's happy wish.

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Get a divorce, husband. I can't fulfill your family's happy wish.

Now that we are in this age, do we still have to live with the husband's whole family in order to be virtuous and filial? I don't understand how my husband's idea came about, but I'm afraid I can't agree with it. Because he insisted too much on this point, my marriage with him came to an end.

My husband's family is poor, but he is the only college student out of his village who was admitted to a key university that year, a record that no one can break so far. Although the job he found in the city is an ordinary civil servant, it is not very successful, but it has always been the pride of his family and even their village. As long as I go back to their village, he will always be greeted with praise and applause, but to me, the villagers of their village are just curious to talk behind my back about who I am and who I can marry such an excellent man.

It is for these reasons that every time my husband and I go back to my mother-in-law's house, my mother-in-law will point fingers at me and find fault with me. She seems to think that I, a girl born in the city, is not as capable as her son. At best, my family is a little better off than their family. I don't seem to be able to do any work. I don't know how to ask me to help cook. This made her disgusted and asked us how to solve the problem of cooking after marriage. Does her wonderful son have to do it himself? I don't know how to answer it. In addition to my mother-in-law, my brother-in-law and sister-in-law also take it for granted to me, as if for them, the function of my sister-in-law is to help work, which also makes me very dissatisfied.

At that time, because I was not satisfied with me, coupled with the fact that his family was really poor, my mother-in-law did not prepare a bride price for me when we got married, and my family also thought that my mother-in-law was too stingy. When the two families met to discuss the details of the wedding, my mother-in-law was very rude to my parents, and my mother was so angry that she left in a huff. Because I insisted on marrying my husband, my parents refused to marry me in the end, so in the end we had to use our savings for a simple wedding, even with decent furniture. After marriage, we worked hard together. At first, we rented a house and lived for several years. Later, I saved all my money and was able to buy a house. I was very happy and felt like my newlywed at that time. Unexpectedly, my husband offered to take his parents and his brothers and sisters over for happiness, saying that they had suffered too much in the country, and now he can't just enjoy himself and forget his family.

I disagree, not only because I don't want to get along with his family who don't take me seriously at all, but also because the house we bought is only 100 square meters and can't live with so many people. In addition, I like to be quiet in the first place. I don't want my home to be noisy like the vegetable market all day. With the attitude of their family, I will definitely not be too comfortable in the future. But when my husband opened his mouth, he accused me of being cold-blooded and not treating them as family. He also said that this is what his wife should do. I think he only wants his family to be reunited, but neglects that I am the one who has shared his joys and sorrows with him over the years and has to go on with him for the rest of his life. Because I felt so sad, after I heard it, I said to him, "honey, let's get divorced. I can't fulfill your family's happy wish. It's a nightmare for me."

Let's talk about it, does this mean that my wife is not sensible, or is my husband too ignorant of my thoughts and feelings?