Let's just say I hate you. I'd rather divorce than live with your mother.

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Let's just say I hate you. I'd rather get a divorce than live with your mother.

I don't want to hide the conflict between me and my mother-in-law at all. sometimes you can't guess what other people think and think. I think I haven't done anything wrong and have great respect for my mother-in-law. but she has always played the role of a "troublemaker" in my marriage according to her own ideas.

My family is superior and I am beautiful and extroverted. After graduating from university, I worked in a very famous magazine in this city. Due to my very good personal conditions, there was no shortage of suitors around me, but I had a very high vision and never found a suitable boyfriend. My husband's family is poor, and his father divorced his mother when he was very young. It is said that he can't stand his mother's personality, and there is a big difference between them. On the one hand, this can prove that there may be some problems with my mother-in-law's character, of course, this is only one side of the story, and we can't make a private judgment until we know my mother-in-law.

Since we met, he has been very kind to me and has a good career. He studied medicine and worked as a doctor in a large hospital after graduation. I thought he was a man worth socializing with in all respects, so when he expressed his affection to me, I agreed to stay with him without hesitation. At that time, he may still be a little self-abased, acting in disbelief, feeling that he was dreaming and repeatedly confirming to me before holding me in a circle. That kind of heartfelt happiness made me feel very happy. Maybe other girls with similar qualifications value a man's wealth more, but what I like is his thoughtfulness and personal ability.

Look at his career and income are OK, my parents do not object, see that his family is not very good, later we married the wedding house is also bought by my parents. After marriage, my husband said that he was busy with his work and wanted to take his mother-in-law to live with him, saying that his mother had suffered a lot for him, and that moving here could make her enjoy happiness. When he was busy, my mother-in-law could also help share the housework and accompany me. I agreed as soon as I heard it. But after my mother-in-law came over, I found that she always thought my husband was very great and very capable. Now all of us are due to his credit, and even think that I am superior to my husband, and my words are all dislike and dissatisfaction with me. I have never received this kind of treatment since I was a child, and I got angry several times after hearing more. But as soon as I told my husband, he said that the old man was like a child. Just let me coax him and put up with it. He is a doctor. For fear of affecting him to go to work for surgery and so on, I don't have the same knowledge as her.

Recently, the magazine is very busy. I need to work overtime and come back late several times. My mother-in-law is very dissatisfied with me. She thinks that I usually like to dress up, and my husband is busy at work. I have a problem coming back so late all day. She won't listen to me no matter what I tell her. Two days ago, she even threw all my things out and directly pointed at me and told me to get out. I was so angry that I took out my property certificate and pointed to my name and said that this was the house my family bought for me and let my mother-in-law go back to her hometown. I really couldn't get along with her anymore.

But when my husband knew about it, he didn't agree. He thought I was disrespectful to my mother-in-law, and even thought it meant that I hated him and his family. But my mother-in-law thought and abused me so much that I couldn't accept it any longer. At that time, I said to my husband, "just assume that I dislike you. I'd rather divorce than live with your mother." Do people think I did something wrong?