The house I married costs nearly one million dollars. Is it too much for your mother to let my brother and sister-in-law live in it?

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The house I married cost nearly one million dollars, and your mother asked her to let her brother and sister-in-law live in it. Did I charge too much rent?

The law is now very clear about premarital property, but for people like my mother-in-law, I don't know whether to pretend to be confused or really confused. Anyway, what I have done makes me feel speechless. But she did not reflect on her fault first, but blamed me for being cold, realistic and snobbish. Let's take a look at who is wrong, okay?

My husband is from the countryside. He works in the city after graduating from university. His family is poor and he grew up in a single-parent family. My father-in-law seems to have passed away when he and my uncle were still in primary school. Both brothers were brought up by my mother-in-law. At that time, in order to raise my two sons, my mother-in-law worked hard to raise them, growing vegetables, raising pigs, raising chickens to pick up waste, and taking advantage of the leisure season to go out to the city to be a babysitter. My uncle didn't go to college, but he didn't farm at home either. after graduating from high school, he worked in many cities, and later he also took odd jobs in the city where we live now. now he runs a small business and has been married a few years ago. rent a house with his sister-in-law. Before my husband and I got married, my mother-in-law lived in a rented house with them.

My husband's family is really far behind our family, but fortunately, he is self-motivated, his work is developing well at present, he has a lot of room for promotion, his personal ability is very strong, and his temper is also very gentle. He is very considerate to me and my family. Although my mother once complained about his family situation, she was not particularly opposed to him for his own sake. After more than two years of love, we finally decided to get married. our mother-in-law didn't have much money for the bride price, and our family didn't expect it. Let them say something. Anyway, I will bring it here after marriage, and my mother's family won't ask for a penny. In the end, my mother-in-law got 20,000. My mother got angry as soon as she saw it. I persuaded her for a long time before she directly scolded my mother-in-law for being too stingy. However, after seeing that my mother-in-law was so unclean, my mother specially told me to be careful after getting married. I'd better separate from my mother-in-law and not live together.

In order to protect me from being wronged, my mother finally bought me a house, but she had long been on her guard. The house was registered directly in her own name, saying that it was a married house, and it was still her property at present. However, since I made some changes in my work after marriage, I was busy going there and had to wait for the second half of the year to move in. But unexpectedly, without my consent, my mother-in-law made her own decision and let my uncle and his family move in. When I learned this, I was angry and called my mother-in-law to communicate, but she disagreed, saying that since I was married, the natural property also belonged to their family. As the head of the family, she could arrange whatever she wanted. As daughter-in-law, I could only follow her advice.

At that time, I felt that I couldn't tell her clearly. I thought she was really law-blind and confused. I asked my highly educated husband to answer the phone, but he was silent all the time, just not answering. After I ran home angrily, I had a big quarrel with him, saying that his brother and sister-in-law must pay rent to live in my house in the past six months, and restrict them to move out immediately after I know about it, or I will sue them for trespassing. My husband said that I should not go too far. In the final analysis, it was also his own brother and sister-in-law. After listening to this, I said to him, "the house I married cost nearly one million yuan. Your mother asked me to let my brother and sister-in-law live in it. Am I charging too much rent?" Let's talk about it. My mother-in-law asked my brother and sister-in-law to move into my dowry room without my consent. She doesn't respect me at all. She doesn't understand the law. Don't my uncle, sister-in-law and my husband understand? I think their family is just pretending to be crazy and foolish to take advantage of my mother's family, is that right?