Smile is the best makeup.

DaDa / tr. by Phil Newell)

In communication, a kind smile is an affectionate business card, an emotional investment without any cost, a "prologue" to show affinity, and the golden key to successful communication.

Humility and kindness is like a spring breeze

In communication, a kind smile is an affectionate business card, an emotional investment without any cost, a "prologue" to show affinity, and the golden key to successful communication.

In the 2004 CCTV singer contest, in addition to launching a number of new singers, it also unexpectedly won the popularity of the female host Dong Qing. Dong Qing, who was jokingly called "Shanghai blossoms, Beijing results" by her peers, won the trust of the contestants and conquered the audience with her generous, sweet smile full of affinity.

However, Dong Qing once revealed that her first arrival in Beijing always gives people a "sense of distance", which makes her very confused. 'when I arrived in Beijing, many of my friends came to ask me if you are from Shanghai, 'she said. I asked why I could see it. They say that Shanghai girls always give people a sense of distance, even when smiling, there is also a sense of distance in the smile. After that, Dong Qing noticed that this was indeed the case. Gradually begin to learn to change, take the initiative to make friends with others, and slowly develop a smile without a sense of distance.

Dong Qing said: "in life, I am not particularly fond of laughing." I love to laugh on the stage, and many people also like my smile and feel very sincere. I am willing to leave the best and most beautiful me to the audience. Standing on the stage, I am very happy. I enjoy my work very much. Sometimes I'm in a bad mood, but when I get on stage, I forget all about it.

World famous model Cindy Crawford once said: "if a woman forgets to wear makeup when she goes out, the best remedy is to show your smile." A kind smile is pleasing to the eye and comfortable. Whether intimate or unfamiliar, as long as you smile, the world will open its warm arms to you.

Communication, like breathing, is indispensable in each of our lives. Laojiachang is an effective way for people to exchange feelings and information. Get to know each other better by getting closer to friends or strangers.

Dong Qing often jokes with the contestants, jokes with the judges, interacts with the audience, giggles when she is happy, and tears in her eyes when she is moved.

Dong Qing's host is rich and colorful, perfect, and the hosting style is plain, emotional and reasonable. She can always communicate with the contestants at zero distance with simple words. With wisdom and humor, she can liven up the atmosphere of the scene, or make the contestants smile through tears.

The most gentle and moving

Turgenev said: "if there were a woman who cared about me in one place and waited for me to go back to dinner, I would give up all my talents and all my books." Natural gentleness and delicacy is the most invincible weapon that God gives women to get along with others.

In a competition, a minority contestant stepped onto the CCTV stage for the first time, but the result was not satisfactory. Dong Qing gently said to the tearful her, "can I give you a hug?" When the little girl and Dong Qing, the big sister, hugged each other tightly, she smiled through tears. The scene moved the audience, who responded with warm applause.

Sometimes, the really warm care does not lie in whether you ask for warmth every day, as long as you are reasonable, compassionate, warm and meticulous, have affinity, pay attention to details, and inadvertently give each other the care you need most. Many people find that Dong Qing will tell the short stories behind the contestants' participation in the competition on the stage. such a cordial introduction not only makes the contestants feel warm, but also gives the audience a more comprehensive understanding of the unknown side of the contestants.

At this time, Dong Qing is the best listener, listening to the contestants' joys and sorrows and excavating their most moving moments. It was precisely because the audience listened carefully that created Dong Qing, who was calm and calm with a microphone on the stage.

Listening is our highest compliment to anyone. When talking to people, you should pay attention to what others say, which is a kind of "wordless praise and compliment."

Being good at listening is a means of interpersonal communication, which seems to be a static state, but in fact it contains a wealth of information. If used properly, it will have endless meaning and achieve the effect of "silence is better than voice".

Well, that's the end of today's sharing! I'll see you next time!