Wife, please tell us that you have only been married for two years. Where did you get a hundred thousand savings?

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Honey, please tell me, we have only been married for two years, where did you get a hundred thousand savings?

In order to maintain a good marriage, the most important thing is that husband and wife can cooperate with each other and achieve balance like scales. Sometimes marriage is not only supported by love, in the face of reality, no matter how strong love will be worn away a little bit. In retrospect, my last marriage was a failure. My ex-wife and I only focus on working outside in the face of reality, and before we know it, the taste of this family fades, and the balance is out of balance.

My ex-wife is a classmate of mine when I was in college, and we are both hard-working people in college. Excellent people always meet because of some competitions. She and I met in an English speech contest, and we are still rivals. It is very strange that I am obviously a competitor, but it is very difficult for me to be hostile to this girl, and even hope that she can give full play. Fate is wonderful, after several games we are opponents, each time we will encourage each other to fight for one or two. The game made our relationship get acquainted gradually and became very good friends. Maybe it's because we are alike in many ways, we have the same goal, and we have been with each other for four years of college. Go to the library together, walk together, prepare for exams together, watch concerts together. Falling in love over time, slowly broke the relationship between friends, and naturally became a lover.

After graduation, we got married. After marriage, since we are both workaholics and our jobs are on the rise, no one wants to return their focus to their families. The point is that there is no one at home to take care of the children, and we can't agree on this. Slowly, the house was filled with silent smoke, and it seemed to be the hotel where my wife and I rested at night. The cold marriage froze our hearts, and finally we chose a peaceful divorce through coordination and negotiation.

After the divorce, I was a little bit resistant to remarriage, and I was afraid that I would fall into a marital imbalance again. God is blessed with people. He closed the door and opened a window at the same time. He let me meet another woman in my life, she and my ex-wife character is diametrically opposite, gentle character like spring breeze and drizzle slowly untie my heart knot. After remarriage, the wife quit her job and became a housewife. She is a good wife and mother, and she takes good care of her family and treats my son as if she were her own. It was my blessing to meet her.

Recently, I stumbled upon something. When I answered the phone for her, I looked through her mobile phone and saw the bank deposit record. I learned that she had more than 100,000 yuan in savings. I wondered where she got the money. When she got married, she gave all her betrothal gifts to her mother's family, and I didn't ask for her dowry. It can be said that she didn't have much money when she got married, and now she doesn't have a job. I know the most important thing between husband and wife is mutual trust, but I still wonder where her money comes from. So I ran to ask her, "wife, please tell me, we have only been married for two years, where did you get a hundred thousand savings?" She looked at me in disbelief and said, "Why are you peeking at my phone?" and then ran out of home while wiping away tears. I saw that she reacted so much that she dared not chase out for questioning, so I had to peek at the diary in her box again. I was surprised after reading it. In order to run our family better, my wife has been saving money from me all the time, trying to save me when I am in trouble in my business. I was narrow-minded and suspected her, and I was wrong.

Think about it carefully, she is really a very simple housekeeper, and I will give her 30,000 yuan a month for living expenses. But having been with her for so long, I have never seen her buy a decent dress for herself, let alone a luxury. Even with the money is spent on me and my son, such a good woman is worth my whole life to cherish, I will go to coax her back, people say I did the right thing?