Break up. I don't want people to think your half-year-old sister is my daughter as soon as they get married.

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Break up. I don't want people to think that your half-year-old sister is my daughter as soon as I get married.

No matter how beautiful love is in front of reality, it will be frittered away a little bit. Once I was immersed in love, unable to extricate myself. Love and marriage are two different things, love is a matter between two people, and marriage is a matter between two families. When my love is really facing the test of reality, I choose to face the reality and make the most long-term plan. I don't know if my choice is right or wrong, maybe I don't have enough courage to face this test.

My boyfriend and I met when we were in college. He was an upperclassman I knew during a competition. I was very impressed by his comments on my speech, and I took a liking to this boy because of that comment. Through in-depth understanding, I found that he is a very hard-working and self-motivated boy. I have thought of a lot of ways to go further with him. I will deliberately find out where he is, and then pretend to run into him, and then get in touch with us and become good friends. In order to have a further development with him, I took the initiative to open this piece of paper of my friend, chasing him, and the phrase "female chasing male interlayer gauze" reflected incisively and vividly on my body, and it wasn't long before I was with him.

My boyfriend's family is average, and my parents are very opposed to us being together. I didn't think so at that time. I always thought that the boy I had a crush on was so motivated that he must be a potential stock in the future. As long as I give him time, he can certainly prove that he is capable of making me happy. In this way, we accompanied each other for four years and witnessed each other's growth.

After graduating from college, we are going to get married. When talking about marriage, the mother-in-law-to-be cried all the time and refused to pay much bride price. This made my parents very angry and thought that my husband didn't attach much importance to me, and even if I got married in the future, there would be no good days. I also felt a little uncomfortable at that time. Why did I try so hard to convince my parents to accept that I was with my boyfriend, while my boyfriend's family was unwilling to offer a generous bride price? My expectant mother-in-law's birthday, I packed a red envelope to celebrate. At the dinner table, I saw my boyfriend fidgeting and went back to his room for a while, during which the baby cried. Realizing that something was wrong, I followed and found that there was a half-year-old girl in my boyfriend's house. But my boyfriend never mentioned the child to me. He saw me at the door and his face suddenly changed. He quickly explained that it was his sister. I angrily said to my boyfriend, "Let's break up. I don't want people to think that your half-year-old sister is my daughter." At that time, my boyfriend was a little at a loss. He explained to me that it was born to his mother not long ago. I turned a deaf ear to my boyfriend and turned away.

I think there should be no concealment in a relationship, and we should take a long-term view. This child will definitely need our burden in the future. Why don't you even mention this to me when you get married, and you don't want to pay betrothal gifts when you get married? what on earth does my boyfriend and his mother think of me? I think our love will eventually be destroyed by reality, so I decided to give up this relationship, people say that I am doing the right thing?