Talking about marriage, my mother-in-law brought my sister-in-law to see me, I heard her call me, and I immediately repented of my marriage.

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Talking about marriage, my mother-in-law brought my sister-in-law to see me. When I heard what she called me, I immediately repented of my marriage.

Recently, my boyfriend and I have been ready to talk about marriage, and we are starting to negotiate and prepare for all parties. The two families met not long ago, and we are almost done talking about betrothal gifts and dowry. But after my mother-in-law brought her sister-in-law to see me, because of her name, I immediately repented of my marriage.

I have been in love with my boyfriend for six years and we met in college. His family is generally well-off, while ours is well-off. I, who grew up carefree and carefree, was very happy and didn't care about his frankness at all. Because he is very kind to me, and we are young, there are unlimited possibilities in the future. Temporary financial difficulties are nothing. I firmly believe that as long as we work together in the future, everything can be achieved with our own hands.

Later, after we had been in love for more than four years and graduated from college, he told me another thing, which surprised me a little. He said that he was not the only child in the family, and there was a sister at the bottom, which was very different from him. He and I were both 24 years old at that time, but his sister was only over 6 years old. After hearing this at that time, to be honest, I was a little surprised, but there was nothing else. I just thought that it was a bit unwise for his parents to want to have another daughter after their son was so old, not to mention that the family was not very well-off, and it didn't seem necessary. But he told me again and again that after he went to high school, the parents felt that their son would leave home when he was old, and he was bored at home, and he happened to be pregnant, so he didn't want to get rid of it, so he was born.

In the final analysis, this is also a family matter of other people, and I have no right to interfere. Thinking that in the future I would only live with my husband, the worst thing would be to let my mother's family make a down payment on our new house and live separately from my parents-in-law and sister-in-law, so I didn't take it to heart at that time. As a result, unexpectedly, when it came to the stage of talking about marriage, my mother-in-law came to see her with her future sister-in-law a few days ago, and the little girl opened her mouth and called her mother to me. At that time, I was surprised and even had a misunderstanding that my boyfriend had caused some trouble in high school and deceived me in the name of his parents. Seeing my misunderstanding, I asked my boyfriend without forgiveness. My soon-to-be mother-in-law hurriedly explained that she thought she and my father-in-law were old and didn't have enough energy and wanted me to help with the children after we got married, which made my sister-in-law change her tune.

I think my mother-in-law is a little too imaginative. As a girl who has never been a mother or even married, I don't want to have a "daughter" as soon as I get married, which is not part of my obligation. My mother-in-law was very angry and said that if she wanted to marry into her family, she had to help raise her sister-in-law, otherwise she would not talk about it, and my answer was to repent of her marriage immediately. Let's talk about it, isn't it that her request is too unreasonable?