What happened to the girl who got married without a house, a car or a bride price?

See a topic: no house, no car, no bride price girl, do you dare to marry?

I asked my friends around me, and many unmarried boys nodded:

"how dare you? why don't you dare?"

"how dare you, but how can there be such a girl?"

But a friend who had been married for more than ten years said thoughtfully:

"then, with her condition of having no worries about food and clothing, doesn't she have anything she wants? If I give selflessly, I'm afraid I don't deserve such a girl. "

I quite like his answer, clearly marked marriage seems vulgar, but the true love is that I never have the heart to let you be wronged.

My friend told me that in the institution where I work, there is a temp elder sister.

She earns less than two thousand dollars, but drives nearly a million cars to work. When my colleagues heard that the eldest sister's husband was a businessman, they all thought that she had married a tuhao.

Chatting occasionally, the eldest sister said, "what tuhao? When he got married, he didn't even have a decent shirt. "

The colleague asked, "then how do you know he is a potential stock?" The eldest sister smiled and said:

"I love sugar cane. He peels it and sends it to me in winter, and he chooses it very sweet. But there is no sugarcane in summer, so he goes down to the field and gives me corn stalks to eat, which is also really sweet. At that time, I thought, this man is quite clever, good to me, reliable, so I married him. "

Not for fame or profit, but to be "kind to her", he really lived up to her trust and built up his present fortune from scratch.

Those girls who do not want a house, a car or a bride price often want things that are more valuable than these, which is called sincerity.

There is no lack of such a girl in life, wearing a sword can rush into battle, but also willing to stay in the second line to control firewood, rice, oil and salt.

Independence can indeed become a woman's strength, but men who need you to be "very independent" often don't love you so much.

Not long ago, a reader complained to me that he had blocked his blind date.

The trigger for blocking him was the news at that time-"10 brides in Henan got married with zero bride price and said in public: I married love."

The boy turned to his moments with the following article: "A woman who marries a penny is true love."

She commented to the boy, "is it not true love if you want material things?"

The boy quickly replied: "it's not selling girls. They most despise material girls who want houses and cars. Won't they make money?"

She felt uncomfortable and didn't figure out how to reply, so she blocked him.

I agree that "if the relationship lasts for a long time, it will not be the bride price", but I am most afraid that he will despise love while being stingy with material things.

A man who is worth marrying will not blame your "material" for his "poverty", but will think that "other girls have it, so does my wife."

Some people say that where there is money, there is sense of security. I think this is a very distressing choice. Because I have nothing to rely on, I have to find compensation materially, but can I really be happy?

Read the story of a couple, the man's condition is very good, two people together, the girl was crowned "high" hat.

The "contentment" of boys and family members gradually cooled the hearts of girls. When she broke up, she solemnly said:

"people think I'm above you, and I don't care what they say. But you use material to make me grateful to you, I can't. I don't accept what you give me. I'm not arrogant. I think these things are expensive and cheap. "

Women are naturally thoughtful and sensitive, and the need for love can never be made up for by money:

Rather than cars and houses, every message they want to send can be answered in a timely manner.

Every time I come back late and go to bed late, I can be taken care of and accompanied.

Get every promise, can be taken to heart and efforts to achieve, will not always say "the sky falls I hold up", but really encounter something will not hide.

No matter how big the house is, you have to go home with her. No matter how luxurious the car is, you have to leave her your own copilot.

You think she smiles when she sees the money, but her eyes are all about you.

Love cannot be measured by money, but loving someone is not stingy about money.

She wants a big house and a family more, but what she wants most is that you love her.

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