My fiance invited my parents to dinner and settled the bill. I don't think we need to get married.

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My fiance invited my parents to dinner, and after paying the bill, I thought I didn't have to get married.

Marrying a person may not be for his money, but the man's attitude towards another partner and his family also reflects your status in his mind to a certain extent. My boyfriend invited my parents and me to dinner not long ago, originally to get in touch with each other, but after he paid the bill, I thought I didn't have to get married.

In fact, speaking of my boyfriend, the family is good, but I do not know if it is due to family education problems, he is thrifty and stingy, we are all AA during the relationship. At that time, I thought, I didn't go for other people's money. At that time, I didn't know if two people could succeed. I thought that it would be better to have no financial entanglements with each other, pure feelings and simple purposes, which was conducive to the development of our relationship.

Is it because my attitude made him and his family very satisfied, so later they agreed to let us continue to develop, and my boyfriend also said that I was different from most of the women he had come into contact with in the past, neither snobbish nor greedy. He appreciated this very much. Up to now, we have been dating for a year and a half, and our relationship is stable and old, so we naturally talk about marriage. He vaguely revealed that he wanted to notarize my premarital property, and I had no objection. Although our family is not as rich as theirs, it is not poor, and my own work and income are quite good. I can live a good life on my own.

Since I didn't have many problems in this respect, we finally reached the stage of talking about marriage. A few days ago, my boyfriend invited me to dinner with my parents, which was a symbolic ceremony. I chose the hotel because I saw that my parents were going to attend, and the meaning of the meal was different from the usual, so I deliberately chose a five-star hotel, which was intended to show respect for my parents. When I check out, I naturally give him the bill. On an occasion like this, shouldn't I pay the bill voluntarily as a son-in-law? Unexpectedly, he was not only too expensive, but also sent me a message asking AA to give him half of the money when he got home. When I saw the news at that time, I was so angry that my blood all over my head poured up, but my heart sank to the bottom and I felt cold all over.

I used to think that my fiance was stingy just because he was taught not to be extravagant and wasteful, but from the way he treated my parents this time, I knew that no one was more important than money in his mind. Maybe it also means that my parents and I are not as important as money in his mind. This is very telling, and although I don't want to admit it, I realize that he may not attach importance to me at all, otherwise it will be difficult to explain what happened to me. I think I can get out of this marriage, what do you think?