My sister-in-law came to my house and lost her money. My marriage ended when I told my husband that I wanted to see her luggage.

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My sister-in-law came to my house and lost her money. My marriage ended when I told my husband that I wanted to see her luggage.

My marriage ended not long ago, and the specific reason is the prejudice, misunderstanding and some specific conflicts caused by family trifles. Of course, I also have mistakes, but I don't think all the mistakes are caused by my contempt for my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. You might as well preside over justice for me and see if Zhongdun is Dunfei.

My name is Xia Twilight Yan, and I am 25 years old. My mother's family is very rich, which makes me a bit of a lady, but I think I am still a very easy person to get along with, no bad intentions, very simple and not material. This can be seen in my view of marriage. My husband Zheng Qiuyang's family is not very good, but he is very considerate to me. We met two years ago on a trip and hit it off very well with each other, so in the end I was with him in spite of my family's opposition.

At that time, although my parents were very angry and worried, in order to make me feel happy and afraid that I would endure hardships after I got married, they finally prepared a wedding room for me, which was paid in full, with all kinds of furniture and very good conditions. Just in order to ensure my quality of life, my parents also agreed with their family before marriage, let us live together after marriage, do not allow his family to come to live together. At that time, I thought they were alarmist. I was lively by nature, thinking that the house was big anyway, and it didn't matter if his parents came to be guests from time to time. But my parents said that I was young and ignorant, the more people in my family, the more complicated the relationship, maybe it would affect the relationship between our husband and wife.

In the first year of marriage, we had a good time, but in March this year, my sister-in-law came to us to look for a job. at that time, because she was not familiar with the land, it was difficult for a girl to rent a house on her own, so she temporarily stayed with us. At first, I didn't think so, but then I found that her living habits were very bad. Her family was often in a mess and never cleaned up, and she was not fastidious at all. She was dressed in street stalls and could not be seen by me at all. You need to dress up for the job, and you need clothes for the interview. You can borrow everything from cosmetics, clothes, bags to shoes. As soon as I talked to my husband more than once, he always asked me to put up with it, saying that my sister was not an outsider, and that she had difficulties, so let me be patient as a sister-in-law.

Recently, I inadvertently found that the ten thousand yuan I had put in the bedroom was missing. I couldn't find it anywhere. There were three people in the family. Everyone said that I didn't doubt who else my sister-in-law could suspect. Forget the usual things, but stealing money is not within my tolerance. So I wanted to go through her suitcase, but my sister-in-law refused as if she had been humiliated. And said I dared to turn her over and call the police. Finally, my husband came back and was very angry after learning that I had not been investigated. What did he say nonsense? He gave the money to his mother-in-law.

But I said the money was not one hundred and two hundred. Why did he have to let me know before he took it? However, he asked why his family's money could not be taken, and whether he was the male master of the family or not. As a result, we had a lot of trouble, and my sister-in-law got angry and left my house and went back to my mother's house without turning back. Maybe after going back, he told me something in front of my parents-in-law, and then my mother-in-law called and scolded my husband, saying that he could not even control his own wife and made his sister suffer so much grievance. My husband put down the phone and had another big fight with me, and finally we divorced in a fit of anger.

People say that what they really say to their family is my personal prejudice and arrogance, isn't there anything wrong with them?