I was in a dilemma after my boyfriend sent a big red envelope to my parents before leaving for the first time.

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My boyfriend came to my house for the first time and gave my parents a big red envelope before leaving. I was in a dilemma after I sent him away.

It is difficult to have both fish and bear's paw. When you make a difficult choice, you often hesitate for a long time. After all, it is very difficult to give up. But now I have to face such a difficult choice, about the choice between affection and love. When I learned that I was going to make a decision, I was devastated.

My boyfriend and I were deskmates in junior high school, but we parted ways when we graduated from junior high school and went our separate ways to complete our respective studies. Later, as a result of fate, we met again at a fraternity party held by the company. as soon as we met, we fell in love at first sight and talked about a three-year relationship. In love, I found that my boyfriend's character has become a nerd in his perennial reading career, he is very dull and knows nothing about the world. However, he has nothing to say to me, so I don't pay too much attention to his stupidity. On the contrary, sometimes I think it is his advantage. At least he is simple and honest, which is a good thing, but I never thought that he spoiled our great event.

In the fourth year of our relationship, my boyfriend proposed to me on my birthday. I was so happy that I gladly agreed and took my boyfriend to meet my parents. On the day I couldn't see my parents, when the big relatives in the family heard the news that I brought my boyfriend home, they all came to join the fun and brought a lot of children. This makes the nervous boyfriend more restrained. Later, my boyfriend responded foolishly to greetings from relatives all the time, and I secretly laughed at him in my heart. But looking at the happy and peaceful atmosphere in front of us, I thought we were inseparable, but in the end we didn't get the approval of our parents.

At the end of the family reunion, relatives left, and the boyfriend said goodbye to his parents and was ready to go home. Before leaving, my boyfriend gave my parents a big red envelope and apologized to my parents, saying that he didn't know there were so many children and had no preparation, and that he would make up for it next time. But my mother relentlessly asked me to break up with my boyfriend after her boyfriend left. my mother thought my boyfriend was ignorant and had nothing to say to those children. She wanted at least two hundred red envelopes per person. They also said that their boyfriends had disgraced them, and they were worried that I would marry such a person.

After a day of noise, I think my boyfriend can be forgiven for this. He didn't know there would be so many children at home, and before he left, he apologized and said there would be compensation, and his mother shouldn't be so mean. But my mother kept crying at me and forced me to break up with my boyfriend. Seeing that there is an affectionate boyfriend on one side and a stubborn mother on the other, where on earth should I go?