The city owes too much to the countryside.

People condemn parents and hope to investigate their failure to fulfill their responsibilities. people say that companionship is love and companionship is more important than making money. In urban society, there is no problem with such criticism and accusation; however, in the face of migrant workers, I cannot say it.

Migrant children, left-behind children, street children, unspeakable pain, in the afternoon of July 22, heavily accumulated in the "Oriental Studio". However, this seems to be a misplaced intervention, a care full of misreading.

It was thought that the issue of left-behind children was discussed around the suicide of the Bijie siblings, but it turned out not to be the revelation of the sexual abuse of 12 rural kindergarten girls in Lingwu, Ningxia, a hot spot in the news. I was surprised that the two young fathers, the parties to such sensitive and private matters, were directly in the spotlight. They were brave and decided not to wear masks after discussion, warning future generations with their painful experiences. Although the interview of the sexual assault process is brief, the cruelty still flows bit by bit. The kindergarten is a preschool left by a public primary school. The only male teacher in his 50s is the teacher of his parents at that time, and the villagers have always trusted him. The only one of the 13 girls who had not been sexually assaulted was the father of a village secretary. The education level of the two fathers is primary school and junior high school, and their wives are both primary school students. The guest's torture fell directly on the sturdy, bewildered father: why didn't you find it for so long? Why did it take two hours to report the case after it was discovered? Guests denounced the dereliction of duty that parents raised but did not teach. It was a mistake to leave their children to go out to work, and it was another dereliction of duty not to find out in time that the girl had been victimized. The rest of the anger is directed at schools and the government. Why did you send such a teacher? why didn't you find it? Why are there no arrangements for the pension and resettlement of the victimized girls?

One preset discussion point is "take the victimized girl away or leave it in your hometown", which is much more real than the other question, "should parents leave their children to go out to work". As long as you have a little understanding of rural life, you will know that changing the environment for girls, no matter how important it is for healing or future growth, the audience will agree with this choice. On the contrary, the psychologist wants a "fundamental solution" to the problem, that is, to resolve the shadow in the girl's heart through psychological counseling and parental love. In the face of such hypocrisy, I feel more than depressed. They seem to know nothing about the livelihood of farmers and the rumors that rural society can make a living. I really can't bear to look at the helpless eyes of the two young fathers. I can't bear to listen to their unreasonable answers, and I don't want to hold them accountable. What we are faced with is not only the tragedy of several families, but also a lack and disorder as a whole.

A more miserable client is on the stage. Pang Yuqiang, a farmer in Dapingshan Town, Xingye County, Guangxi, whose daughter Xiaoyu was sexually assaulted more than 50 times by 16 elderly men in the village at the age of 11. Her father took her to Guangzhou, where she worked. Five years later, Xiaoyu was lured and lost in Guangzhou in March this year. I still have to ask questions about the past that I can't bear to look back on, or the vague answers, or the helpless look in his eyes. He repeatedly says that I have no education, and that there is a little girl and a son suffering from epilepsy in the family. He came here to advertise for people on TV and to raise money for his son's treatment. The design of the program, Xiaoyu's later tragedy seems to be to prove that the injured girl did not come out of the psychological shadow. The expert asked the father again and again if he had said "daughter, I love you" aloud. As a result, the old farmer still said it. This lack of compassion and compassionate torture all reveals the city people's self-righteousness and condescending sense of superiority. And the "selling point" of the program may be a kind of. The consumption of the suffering of migrant workers?

Shi Qinghua, principal of Beijing Guang'ai School, which adopts a large number of street children, is a bright spot and positive energy. However, the 15-year-old Chen Zequn, who played with him, was also surprising. He was adopted because of his father's serious violence and wandering from home. The minor who is in such a marginal state of society is not only not protected, but also discussed face-to-face. Principal Shi's dilemma is that it is difficult to bear the responsibility beyond the law, such as the father of Zequn refuses to meet and does not grant the right of proxy for education, so that the school is unable to sign for his children to go to school and medical treatment; and the consequence of Zequn's return home is to continue to wander. The problem comes back to denouncing irresponsible parents. The question is, if students return to street crime, which is more responsible, Principal Shi or his father? The standard answer is father. There is also such a question: if schools are not closed, will it lead to more street children? I am deeply disturbed. This is really a very cold-blooded discussion. Is this a kind of understanding and help, or is it continuing. Consumer suffering?

The tragedy that a 14-year-old boy in Bijie Nayong County was beaten to death by 13 classmates was discussed. The victims are migrant children who have been living with their mother and brother in Jiangsu for a long time. They are not able to attend high school and return to their hometown. Therefore, this is first of all a tragedy of migrant children, highlighting the plight of migrant children in receiving high school education. Of course, this is also the tragedy of left-behind children, because many of the beaters are left-behind children. Let us pay attention to such figures: in the composition of juvenile delinquency, left-behind children account for about 70%. Therefore, this is a serious social problem with integrity. Because of this, migrant children and left-behind children are major issues that the whole society must pay attention to and should be discussed in public space, while psychological counseling, counseling and assistance to parties, victims and minors should be carried out quietly in private space. Unfortunately, at this scene, these two spaces are reversed, and we talk about individual cases and "private matters" in public, lacking due protection for the parties and minors; at the same time, there is a lack of in-depth discussion on really important public topics.